10-1-2010
Heart Healing by Boyd Bailey
“He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.” Psalm 147:3
Like our physical heart, our emotional heart can suffer from neglect. Without a proper diet of truth and the exercise of forgiveness a wounded heart will eventually break. Was your childhood an emotional wasteland? Have you been emotionally starved, or have you exhausted your emotions on others? If so, you are a candidate for Christ’s healing.
Maybe your parents deeply disappoint you. They are unable to connect at a deeper heart-felt level. This wounds your heart. Maybe a physical aliment or lack of training in social skills has crushed your confidence. Does insecurity dominate your self-image? This hurts your heart. Do you weep at night crying out to God for relief, but heaven is silent? Indeed, a heart burdened with emotional baggage longs for the Lord’s love, grace and healing.
Your heart may be crushed under the weight of unmet expectations. The cumulative affect of multiple wounds to your heart has led to a broken heart. You mask these deep hurts in hyper-activity. You work harder, but your heart needs to be softened by Jesus. A heavy heart yearns for healing to avoid angry outbursts and impatient attitudes. “A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger” (Proverbs 15:1, NKJV).
God is our heart specialist. He has never lost anyone on His surgical table of love. To some degree we are all candidates for a divine coronary bypass of forgiveness and truth. Truth is medicinal. It is one of God’s most potent drugs that He administers to a broken heart. He loves you and has a grace-filled plan for your life. He loves you right where you are—He loves who you are. Believe it and let God begin healing your heart.
The truth is, as a follower of Christ, you are a child of the King. You can be grateful because as a believer you come from the blue blood line of King Jesus. Hold your head high and walk with a bounce in your step because you matter to God. You are extremely valuable to your Heavenly father. Believe it and allow Him to heal your heavy heart.
The truth is, we can forgive those who have deeply wounded us because Christ has forgiven us. We have the capacity to forgive dwelling within us in the person of the Holy Spirit. “The spirit is willing, but the body is weak” (Mark 14:38). So, we forgive especially when we don’t have the energy to emotionally engage. We trust Him to heal.
The truth is, you can seek first the Kingdom of God but you do not have to clamor after the approval of people. Believe it, apply it, and let God begin healing your heart. He is your heart specialist. Invite Him to perform heart surgery today with the scalpels of truth and forgiveness. “You will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” (John 8:32).
What areas of my heart need the healing touch of my Heavenly father?
Related Readings: Proverbs 15:30; Isaiah 6:10, 30:26; Matthew 9:22; Acts 9:34
Thursday, September 30, 2010
Wednesday, September 29, 2010
Appearance of Evil
9-30-2010
Appearance of Evil by Boyd Bailey
“Abstain from all appearance of evil.” 1 Thessalonians 5:22 KJV
Perception is reality in the eyes of the beholder, so what does the world see in me? Am I known as a committed Christian on Sunday and someone who is somewhat shady the other six days of the week? Where I go, what I do and whom I spend time with gives the appearance of good or bad behavior. The Lord calls us to abstain from unseemly activity.
Corrupt affections cause us to pervert what God intended as good, while a pure heart can’t help but love as the Lord loves. It is in our autonomy that temptations raise their appealing head and cause us to deceive ourselves. What seems as an innocent flirtation may appear as an invitation to unfaithfulness. What looks like a sloppy expense report may appear as lack of integrity. What resembles inconsistency communicates hypocrisy.
So we have to ask ourselves, “Is our testimony for Christ trustworthy and true?” Do we represent Him well in the world or have we diluted the Christian brand with bad associations? Jesus prayed for us, “My prayer is not that you take them out of the world but that you protect them from the evil one. They are not of the world, even as I am not of it” (John 17:15-16). So Jesus followers are to be in this world, but not of this world.
There is always a risk of being branded “a friend of sinners”, but it is a compliment to be labeled like our Lord was labeled. “The Son of Man came eating and drinking, and they say, 'Here is a glutton and a drunkard, a friend of tax collectors and "sinners." ' But wisdom is proved right by her actions” (Matthew 11:19). Jesus loved relationally.
Evil appearances attract a heart comfortable with sin, but not a heart adverse to sin. We are commanded to love the sinner without being soiled by their sin. Like Jesus we are called to get our hands dirty in the messiness of life—while bringing hope, holiness and wholeness to recipients of God’s grace. Life motivated by true love is a good appearance.
So how do we embrace good appearances and avoid bad appearances? We pray, we set standards based on the wisdom of God’s word and we seek accountability from trusted friends. Believers snared by certain behaviors in the past are wise to avoid them in the present. Abstain from those attitudes and actions that dilute your fidelity to faith in Jesus.
“You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; to be made new in the attitude of your minds; and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness” (Ephesians 4:22-24).
Am I above reproach in my money management, sexual purity and truthfulness?
Related Readings: Proverbs 3:4; 13:20; 16:6, 17; 1Timothy 3:2 1 Thessalonians 5:22
Appearance of Evil by Boyd Bailey
“Abstain from all appearance of evil.” 1 Thessalonians 5:22 KJV
Perception is reality in the eyes of the beholder, so what does the world see in me? Am I known as a committed Christian on Sunday and someone who is somewhat shady the other six days of the week? Where I go, what I do and whom I spend time with gives the appearance of good or bad behavior. The Lord calls us to abstain from unseemly activity.
Corrupt affections cause us to pervert what God intended as good, while a pure heart can’t help but love as the Lord loves. It is in our autonomy that temptations raise their appealing head and cause us to deceive ourselves. What seems as an innocent flirtation may appear as an invitation to unfaithfulness. What looks like a sloppy expense report may appear as lack of integrity. What resembles inconsistency communicates hypocrisy.
So we have to ask ourselves, “Is our testimony for Christ trustworthy and true?” Do we represent Him well in the world or have we diluted the Christian brand with bad associations? Jesus prayed for us, “My prayer is not that you take them out of the world but that you protect them from the evil one. They are not of the world, even as I am not of it” (John 17:15-16). So Jesus followers are to be in this world, but not of this world.
There is always a risk of being branded “a friend of sinners”, but it is a compliment to be labeled like our Lord was labeled. “The Son of Man came eating and drinking, and they say, 'Here is a glutton and a drunkard, a friend of tax collectors and "sinners." ' But wisdom is proved right by her actions” (Matthew 11:19). Jesus loved relationally.
Evil appearances attract a heart comfortable with sin, but not a heart adverse to sin. We are commanded to love the sinner without being soiled by their sin. Like Jesus we are called to get our hands dirty in the messiness of life—while bringing hope, holiness and wholeness to recipients of God’s grace. Life motivated by true love is a good appearance.
So how do we embrace good appearances and avoid bad appearances? We pray, we set standards based on the wisdom of God’s word and we seek accountability from trusted friends. Believers snared by certain behaviors in the past are wise to avoid them in the present. Abstain from those attitudes and actions that dilute your fidelity to faith in Jesus.
“You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; to be made new in the attitude of your minds; and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness” (Ephesians 4:22-24).
Am I above reproach in my money management, sexual purity and truthfulness?
Related Readings: Proverbs 3:4; 13:20; 16:6, 17; 1Timothy 3:2 1 Thessalonians 5:22
Tuesday, September 28, 2010
Constructive Complaints
9-29-2010
Constructive Complaints by Boyd Bailey
“I cry aloud to the Lord; I lift up my voice to the Lord for mercy. I pour out my complaint before him; before him I tell my trouble.” Psalm 142:1-2
Christ invites constructive complaints. He does not expect His children to have a complaint free life. It is ok to express our heavy heart to the One who created our heart and emotions. Our complaints are an opportunity to intersect our anxieties with God’s compassion and faithfulness. Complaints are meant for us to regroup with Jesus.
David expressed his humble complaint to the Lord, “Hear me, O God, as I voice my complaint; protect my life from the threat of the enemy” (Psalm 64:1).
However, complaints should not evolve into a gripe session with God without any redeeming outcomes. The purpose is not to spew out frustrations and continue to live a cynical life. The reason for our expressions of fear, doubt, anger or jealousy is to deal with this negative energy in a safe environment.
God listens and loves you; He wants to lead you into a better way. He receives your complaints like a fair and caring judge in a court of law. Here a prepared attorney presents a plaintiff’s complaint of injustice. Your lawyer is Jesus, and He pleads your complaint to your Heavenly father. “For there is one God and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus, who gave himself as a ransom for all men—the testimony given in its proper time” (1 Timothy 2:5-6). Christ frees us from chronic complaining.
Moreover, learn from the Lord how to receive complaints from others. Be patient and understanding with complainers in your life. See them not as an annoyance, but someone who is hurting and in need of relief. You may not know how to fix them or their situation, but you can listen with care and lend a helping hand. People do not want to be fixed, but they do want to be heard with empathetic ears.
Complainers can become a nuisance or their pent up energy can be channeled into productivity. Your biggest complainers can become your most effective managers and leaders. But it requires coaching and leading on your part. People are where you have led them. Anyone can ignore or isolate a complainer, but skilled leaders know how to appreciate and capitalize on those that boldly express themselves.
Listening to complaints may save you a lawsuit or be the springboard for improving a process or policy. There is normally a better way to do something, so listen to those who are in the middle of the work. Grassroots ideas are usually the best ideas. Bad news needs to travel fast, so encourage rapid complaints from those around you. Let complaints become a catalyst for change. Let them draw you closer to God and learn from Him.
“Those who are wayward in spirit will gain understanding; those who complain will accept instruction” (Isaiah 29:24).
Am I prayerful and teachable in my complaints to Christ? Who do I need to listen to?
Related Readings: Job 7:11-13; Jeremiah 12:1; Acts 6:1; 18:14
Constructive Complaints by Boyd Bailey
“I cry aloud to the Lord; I lift up my voice to the Lord for mercy. I pour out my complaint before him; before him I tell my trouble.” Psalm 142:1-2
Christ invites constructive complaints. He does not expect His children to have a complaint free life. It is ok to express our heavy heart to the One who created our heart and emotions. Our complaints are an opportunity to intersect our anxieties with God’s compassion and faithfulness. Complaints are meant for us to regroup with Jesus.
David expressed his humble complaint to the Lord, “Hear me, O God, as I voice my complaint; protect my life from the threat of the enemy” (Psalm 64:1).
However, complaints should not evolve into a gripe session with God without any redeeming outcomes. The purpose is not to spew out frustrations and continue to live a cynical life. The reason for our expressions of fear, doubt, anger or jealousy is to deal with this negative energy in a safe environment.
God listens and loves you; He wants to lead you into a better way. He receives your complaints like a fair and caring judge in a court of law. Here a prepared attorney presents a plaintiff’s complaint of injustice. Your lawyer is Jesus, and He pleads your complaint to your Heavenly father. “For there is one God and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus, who gave himself as a ransom for all men—the testimony given in its proper time” (1 Timothy 2:5-6). Christ frees us from chronic complaining.
Moreover, learn from the Lord how to receive complaints from others. Be patient and understanding with complainers in your life. See them not as an annoyance, but someone who is hurting and in need of relief. You may not know how to fix them or their situation, but you can listen with care and lend a helping hand. People do not want to be fixed, but they do want to be heard with empathetic ears.
Complainers can become a nuisance or their pent up energy can be channeled into productivity. Your biggest complainers can become your most effective managers and leaders. But it requires coaching and leading on your part. People are where you have led them. Anyone can ignore or isolate a complainer, but skilled leaders know how to appreciate and capitalize on those that boldly express themselves.
Listening to complaints may save you a lawsuit or be the springboard for improving a process or policy. There is normally a better way to do something, so listen to those who are in the middle of the work. Grassroots ideas are usually the best ideas. Bad news needs to travel fast, so encourage rapid complaints from those around you. Let complaints become a catalyst for change. Let them draw you closer to God and learn from Him.
“Those who are wayward in spirit will gain understanding; those who complain will accept instruction” (Isaiah 29:24).
Am I prayerful and teachable in my complaints to Christ? Who do I need to listen to?
Related Readings: Job 7:11-13; Jeremiah 12:1; Acts 6:1; 18:14
Monday, September 27, 2010
Eyes on God
9-28-2010
Eyes on God by Boyd Bailey
“In the year that King Uzziah died, I saw the Lord seated on a throne, high and exalted, and the train of his robe filled the temple.” Isaiah 6:1
Kings and Queens rule for a season and then are deposed or die, but the Lord is alive and reins eternal. The shepherds of God’s flock lead and care for the sheep, but occasionally even a pastor may stumble and fall. However, the Great Shepherd God is without sin and is always looking out for the least of His wandering flock. So, we look only at the Lord to secure our faith.
Did you have someone on a pedestal that has let you down by their immoral or fickle behavior? Has a Christian celebrity taken advantage of their freedom and power to exploit naïve and trusting followers? It’s when we place our expectations of a leader above the Lord that we set ourselves up for disappointment, even rejection of our faith.
Therefore, keep your eyes on Jesus, for He will never let you down. Look beyond the disappointments of sinful men and women, and set your gaze on the glory of God. He is the only one worthy of our worship and 100% loyalty and affection. He is high above hypocrisy and lifted up over lies and deceit. His throne is high and holy—trustworthy and true. Go to God in your grief over sinful acts disguised by religion. He heals hurting hearts.
The Lord will judge those who use their position of public trust to abuse their authority. “Woe to the shepherds who are destroying and scattering the sheep of my pasture!" declares the LORD” (Jeremiah 23:1). Those who represent God must genuinely submit to and obey God. There is a greater accountability for those who teach the word of God.
“Not many of you should presume to be teachers, my brothers, because you know that we who teach will be judged more strictly” (James 3:1).
Above all else, keep the eyes of your faith fixed on King Jesus, the ruler of your life. His crown of compassion glistens with glory. His scepter of selfless love dispenses endless decrees of grace and mercy. His righteous robe of holiness causes us to bow down in awe and fear of His judgment. While the angels praise Him, you adore Him. Fix your eyes on the eternal. Today you see the unseen by faith, but that day you will see Him face to face.
"See, the Lord is coming with thousands upon thousands of his holy ones” (Jude 1:14b).
Are my eyes set on the clay feet of men or on the unchanging truths of Christ?
Related Readings: Psalm 25:15; 123:2; 141:8; Hebrews 12:14; Revelation 4:8
Eyes on God by Boyd Bailey
“In the year that King Uzziah died, I saw the Lord seated on a throne, high and exalted, and the train of his robe filled the temple.” Isaiah 6:1
Kings and Queens rule for a season and then are deposed or die, but the Lord is alive and reins eternal. The shepherds of God’s flock lead and care for the sheep, but occasionally even a pastor may stumble and fall. However, the Great Shepherd God is without sin and is always looking out for the least of His wandering flock. So, we look only at the Lord to secure our faith.
Did you have someone on a pedestal that has let you down by their immoral or fickle behavior? Has a Christian celebrity taken advantage of their freedom and power to exploit naïve and trusting followers? It’s when we place our expectations of a leader above the Lord that we set ourselves up for disappointment, even rejection of our faith.
Therefore, keep your eyes on Jesus, for He will never let you down. Look beyond the disappointments of sinful men and women, and set your gaze on the glory of God. He is the only one worthy of our worship and 100% loyalty and affection. He is high above hypocrisy and lifted up over lies and deceit. His throne is high and holy—trustworthy and true. Go to God in your grief over sinful acts disguised by religion. He heals hurting hearts.
The Lord will judge those who use their position of public trust to abuse their authority. “Woe to the shepherds who are destroying and scattering the sheep of my pasture!" declares the LORD” (Jeremiah 23:1). Those who represent God must genuinely submit to and obey God. There is a greater accountability for those who teach the word of God.
“Not many of you should presume to be teachers, my brothers, because you know that we who teach will be judged more strictly” (James 3:1).
Above all else, keep the eyes of your faith fixed on King Jesus, the ruler of your life. His crown of compassion glistens with glory. His scepter of selfless love dispenses endless decrees of grace and mercy. His righteous robe of holiness causes us to bow down in awe and fear of His judgment. While the angels praise Him, you adore Him. Fix your eyes on the eternal. Today you see the unseen by faith, but that day you will see Him face to face.
"See, the Lord is coming with thousands upon thousands of his holy ones” (Jude 1:14b).
Are my eyes set on the clay feet of men or on the unchanging truths of Christ?
Related Readings: Psalm 25:15; 123:2; 141:8; Hebrews 12:14; Revelation 4:8
Strengths and Struggles
9-27-2010
Strengths and Struggles by Boyd Bailey
Strengths and Struggle“We have different gifts, according to the grace given us.” Romans 12:6a
Know and understand your strengths, for is best to behave how God created you. By God’s grace, He places within you giftedness to carry out His plan. This is called your core competency. You may be a gifted leader, so lead. You may be a gifted coach, so coach. You may be a gifted counselor, so counsel. You may be a gifted administrator, so administer.
You may be a gifted networker, so network. You may be a gifted writer, so write. You may be a gifted teacher, so teach. You may be a gifted servant, so serve. You may be a gifted artist, so create. You may be a gifted communicator, so communicate. There is a long menu of gifts, and you probably resemble several of them. Study your gifts, and you will discover your strengths.
Become comfortable with and accept the one thing you do naturally. It is effortless because God has engineered you for this. He gave you the skills and abilities to innovate, create, and produce these desired outcomes. However, make sure you do not confuse passion with strength. If you have the passion to speak, it is imperative you at least have the raw skill for speaking. Many of the technicalities of communication can be learned, but don’t try to make yourself become someone you’re not.
Synergy for life and work come as you align passions and strengths. Take the time to understand what you do best and where you have the most energy, and then position your responsibilities at home and work to mirror that ideal. Do not be afraid to change and try new things. Ask others to validate what you do best. Ask those who know you well to affirm where they see your passion protrude. Then, prayerfully align around both.
You can know and understand your strengths by taking a spiritual gifts test, as this helps you define your God-given disposition. Take a personality assessment, for this helps you understand your temperament. Lastly, consider taking a psychological test, because this reveals your emotional intelligence and your leadership style. Be who God has made you to be, and you will be free.
Furthermore, embrace and celebrate your struggles. They keep you humble. Do not resist accepting your struggles; embrace them instead. Make your struggles your servant by allowing others to do much better what you can’t do. It is okay not to like details, but value them and those who manage them well. Your struggles beg the need for a team. It is in your struggles that you depend more on God and others.
So, be honest with yourself about what you don’t do well. Accept the fact that even though you want to do something, you don’t need to if others can do it better. They can free you to do only what you can do. Release your areas of mediocre effectiveness, as this gives others opportunities for excellence. Laugh at yourself, for this frees you from the tension of unrealistic expectations, and allows you to enjoy life.
You are a valued member in the Body of Christ. “The body is a unit, though it is made up of many parts; and though all its parts are many, they form one body. So it is with Christ. For we were all baptized by one Spirit into one body…” (1 Corinthians 12:12-13a).
Strengths and Struggles by Boyd Bailey
Strengths and Struggle“We have different gifts, according to the grace given us.” Romans 12:6a
Know and understand your strengths, for is best to behave how God created you. By God’s grace, He places within you giftedness to carry out His plan. This is called your core competency. You may be a gifted leader, so lead. You may be a gifted coach, so coach. You may be a gifted counselor, so counsel. You may be a gifted administrator, so administer.
You may be a gifted networker, so network. You may be a gifted writer, so write. You may be a gifted teacher, so teach. You may be a gifted servant, so serve. You may be a gifted artist, so create. You may be a gifted communicator, so communicate. There is a long menu of gifts, and you probably resemble several of them. Study your gifts, and you will discover your strengths.
Become comfortable with and accept the one thing you do naturally. It is effortless because God has engineered you for this. He gave you the skills and abilities to innovate, create, and produce these desired outcomes. However, make sure you do not confuse passion with strength. If you have the passion to speak, it is imperative you at least have the raw skill for speaking. Many of the technicalities of communication can be learned, but don’t try to make yourself become someone you’re not.
Synergy for life and work come as you align passions and strengths. Take the time to understand what you do best and where you have the most energy, and then position your responsibilities at home and work to mirror that ideal. Do not be afraid to change and try new things. Ask others to validate what you do best. Ask those who know you well to affirm where they see your passion protrude. Then, prayerfully align around both.
You can know and understand your strengths by taking a spiritual gifts test, as this helps you define your God-given disposition. Take a personality assessment, for this helps you understand your temperament. Lastly, consider taking a psychological test, because this reveals your emotional intelligence and your leadership style. Be who God has made you to be, and you will be free.
Furthermore, embrace and celebrate your struggles. They keep you humble. Do not resist accepting your struggles; embrace them instead. Make your struggles your servant by allowing others to do much better what you can’t do. It is okay not to like details, but value them and those who manage them well. Your struggles beg the need for a team. It is in your struggles that you depend more on God and others.
So, be honest with yourself about what you don’t do well. Accept the fact that even though you want to do something, you don’t need to if others can do it better. They can free you to do only what you can do. Release your areas of mediocre effectiveness, as this gives others opportunities for excellence. Laugh at yourself, for this frees you from the tension of unrealistic expectations, and allows you to enjoy life.
You are a valued member in the Body of Christ. “The body is a unit, though it is made up of many parts; and though all its parts are many, they form one body. So it is with Christ. For we were all baptized by one Spirit into one body…” (1 Corinthians 12:12-13a).
Thursday, September 23, 2010
Heart Felt Forgiveness
9-24-2010
Heart Felt Forgiveness by Boyd Bailey
“This is how my heavenly Father will treat each of you unless you forgive your brother from your heart." Matthew 18:35
As a follower of Jesus—I know in my head I am to perpetually forgive—but this truth does not always migrate to my heart. It’s a struggle to be patient with, much less pardon a person who is reckless with their words and angry in their attitude. My heart felt forgiveness does not catch up with my head knowledge until I truly take to heart the depth and breadth of God’s forgiveness. “In him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of sins, in accordance with the riches of God's grace” (Ephesians 1:7).
Christ’s clemency on the cross for mankind is unconditional for all who believe. “Everyone who believes in him receives forgiveness of sins through his name” (Acts 10:43b). The reminder that we are sinners saved by grace grows humility and dismisses pride. Indeed, a pride-less person is able to offer perpetual forgiveness to their offender.
However, anyone who behaves like they are un-forgiven (by their unmerciful actions) will be treated by their heavenly father as if they were un-forgiven. A more severe judgment awaits any follower of Christ who withholds the grace and forgiveness they have received from God. True forgiveness offers a permanent pardon, not a temporary reprieve.
Have you been treated unjustly and accused unfairly? Has someone you really respected let you down? Has a friend gossiped about you or has a church member lied to you? If you stay stuck in self-pity and anger you will miss an opportunity to model mercy, grace and forgiveness. Jesus says it’s easy to love those who love us, even the world does this:
“Do to others as you would have them do to you. If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even 'sinners' love those who love them. And if you do good to those who are good to you, what credit is that to you? Even 'sinners' do that” (Luke 6:31-33). Thus, heart-felt forgiveness goes the extra mile to extend grace to the undeserving.
Therefore, by God’s grace, grant bold forgiveness to bad deeds against you and your family. Let go of the emotional debt another owes you but who can never repay you. Heart-felt forgiveness opens the doors of pride’s prison and releases the offender and the one offended. Extend Jesus’ gift of perpetual forgiveness and enjoy its freedom forever.
“For I will forgive their wickedness and will remember their sins no more” (Hebrews 8:12).
Is my forgiveness of others heart-felt and Christ centered?
Related Readings: 1 Kings 8:39; Ecclesiastes 4:1; Matthew 11:20; Luke 7:47
Heart Felt Forgiveness by Boyd Bailey
“This is how my heavenly Father will treat each of you unless you forgive your brother from your heart." Matthew 18:35
As a follower of Jesus—I know in my head I am to perpetually forgive—but this truth does not always migrate to my heart. It’s a struggle to be patient with, much less pardon a person who is reckless with their words and angry in their attitude. My heart felt forgiveness does not catch up with my head knowledge until I truly take to heart the depth and breadth of God’s forgiveness. “In him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of sins, in accordance with the riches of God's grace” (Ephesians 1:7).
Christ’s clemency on the cross for mankind is unconditional for all who believe. “Everyone who believes in him receives forgiveness of sins through his name” (Acts 10:43b). The reminder that we are sinners saved by grace grows humility and dismisses pride. Indeed, a pride-less person is able to offer perpetual forgiveness to their offender.
However, anyone who behaves like they are un-forgiven (by their unmerciful actions) will be treated by their heavenly father as if they were un-forgiven. A more severe judgment awaits any follower of Christ who withholds the grace and forgiveness they have received from God. True forgiveness offers a permanent pardon, not a temporary reprieve.
Have you been treated unjustly and accused unfairly? Has someone you really respected let you down? Has a friend gossiped about you or has a church member lied to you? If you stay stuck in self-pity and anger you will miss an opportunity to model mercy, grace and forgiveness. Jesus says it’s easy to love those who love us, even the world does this:
“Do to others as you would have them do to you. If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even 'sinners' love those who love them. And if you do good to those who are good to you, what credit is that to you? Even 'sinners' do that” (Luke 6:31-33). Thus, heart-felt forgiveness goes the extra mile to extend grace to the undeserving.
Therefore, by God’s grace, grant bold forgiveness to bad deeds against you and your family. Let go of the emotional debt another owes you but who can never repay you. Heart-felt forgiveness opens the doors of pride’s prison and releases the offender and the one offended. Extend Jesus’ gift of perpetual forgiveness and enjoy its freedom forever.
“For I will forgive their wickedness and will remember their sins no more” (Hebrews 8:12).
Is my forgiveness of others heart-felt and Christ centered?
Related Readings: 1 Kings 8:39; Ecclesiastes 4:1; Matthew 11:20; Luke 7:47
Contentment's Concern
9-23-2010
Contentment’s Concern
“My heart is not proud O Lord, my eyes are not haughty; I do not concern myself with great matters or things too wonderful for me. But I have stilled and quieted my soul. Like a weaned child with its mother, like a weaned child is my soul within me. O Israel, put your hope in the Lord both now and forevermore.” Psalm 131:1-3
Contentment is not being concerned with matters out of its control. Anytime we try to manage circumstances out of our purview we grow discontent. Discontentment is a dangerous place to live, because it may lead to a hasty and/or unwise decision. Decisions made under the duress of discontentment are not always the best.
Contentment on the other hand is patient and prayerful in decision-making. Most things do not have to be decided right away. We can wait and watch God unfold His will. Contentment does not try to change people. This is God’s job. He will deal with them in His way and in His timing. Christ can be trusted to transform others on His schedule.
“For it is God who works in you to will and to act according to his good purpose” (Philippians 2:13).
A contented person does not have to be in the know about everything around them. This unhealthy curiosity is fed by pride. Pride and discontentment are first cousins. Too much information can get you into trouble. You are responsible for what you know. It may be that you are not ready for that level of authority. Be content and trust God with those issues that exceed your experience to understand or your capacity to perform well.
Contentment is found by placing your hope in God. Hope in God can never be taken from you. If we can trust Him with our soul for eternity, we can trust Him during this brief time on earth. Hope feeds contentment like an appetizing meal to a homeless man. It is when you lose hope that you grow discontent, but lasting hope is found in Jesus Christ.
“Guide me in your truth and teach me, for you are God my Savior, and my hope is in you all day long” (Psalm 25:5).
Don’t make it hard. He is not allusive or in hiding. He is available now. Contentment’s hope is in the Lord. If you place your hope in anything other than God, you set yourself up for major disappointment. Everything else in life is capable of letting you down, but not your Heavenly father. He is there for you. His desire for you is contentment. Christ desires contentment, because He knows this is where pure joy and happiness nurture and grow.
Sad are the discontent, glad are the content. Driven are the discontent, called are the content. Restless are the discontent, peaceful are the content. Addicted are the discontent, satisfied are the content. Pessimistic are the discontent, hopeful are the content. Thus, be content and enjoy its peace. Above all, base your contentment on Christ and not on your circumstances.
“I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do everything through him who gives me strength” (Philippians 4:11-13).
Is my contentment based on Christ or on my circumstances?
Related Readings: Job 36:11; Song of Solomon 8:10; 1 Thessalonians 1:3; 1 Timothy 6:6
Contentment’s Concern
“My heart is not proud O Lord, my eyes are not haughty; I do not concern myself with great matters or things too wonderful for me. But I have stilled and quieted my soul. Like a weaned child with its mother, like a weaned child is my soul within me. O Israel, put your hope in the Lord both now and forevermore.” Psalm 131:1-3
Contentment is not being concerned with matters out of its control. Anytime we try to manage circumstances out of our purview we grow discontent. Discontentment is a dangerous place to live, because it may lead to a hasty and/or unwise decision. Decisions made under the duress of discontentment are not always the best.
Contentment on the other hand is patient and prayerful in decision-making. Most things do not have to be decided right away. We can wait and watch God unfold His will. Contentment does not try to change people. This is God’s job. He will deal with them in His way and in His timing. Christ can be trusted to transform others on His schedule.
“For it is God who works in you to will and to act according to his good purpose” (Philippians 2:13).
A contented person does not have to be in the know about everything around them. This unhealthy curiosity is fed by pride. Pride and discontentment are first cousins. Too much information can get you into trouble. You are responsible for what you know. It may be that you are not ready for that level of authority. Be content and trust God with those issues that exceed your experience to understand or your capacity to perform well.
Contentment is found by placing your hope in God. Hope in God can never be taken from you. If we can trust Him with our soul for eternity, we can trust Him during this brief time on earth. Hope feeds contentment like an appetizing meal to a homeless man. It is when you lose hope that you grow discontent, but lasting hope is found in Jesus Christ.
“Guide me in your truth and teach me, for you are God my Savior, and my hope is in you all day long” (Psalm 25:5).
Don’t make it hard. He is not allusive or in hiding. He is available now. Contentment’s hope is in the Lord. If you place your hope in anything other than God, you set yourself up for major disappointment. Everything else in life is capable of letting you down, but not your Heavenly father. He is there for you. His desire for you is contentment. Christ desires contentment, because He knows this is where pure joy and happiness nurture and grow.
Sad are the discontent, glad are the content. Driven are the discontent, called are the content. Restless are the discontent, peaceful are the content. Addicted are the discontent, satisfied are the content. Pessimistic are the discontent, hopeful are the content. Thus, be content and enjoy its peace. Above all, base your contentment on Christ and not on your circumstances.
“I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do everything through him who gives me strength” (Philippians 4:11-13).
Is my contentment based on Christ or on my circumstances?
Related Readings: Job 36:11; Song of Solomon 8:10; 1 Thessalonians 1:3; 1 Timothy 6:6
Tuesday, September 21, 2010
Golf Balls
9-22-2010
When things in your life seem almost too much to handle,
When 24 hours aren’t enough in a day;
remember the mayonnaise jar and 2 cups of coffee.
The Mayonnaise Jar
A professor stood before his philosophy class
and had some items in front of him.
At the start of class, wordlessly,
he picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar
and filled it with golf balls even shaking it to fit 1 more in.
He then asked the students if the jar was full, and they agreed that it was.
The professor then poured a box of pebbles into the jar. He shook the jar lightly, and the pebbles settled into the open areas between the golf balls.
He then asked the students again if the jar was full.
They agreed it was.
Next, the professor picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar.
Of course, the sand filled up everything else; he asked once more if the jar was full.
Unanimously, the students responded with “Yes!”
The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table
and poured the entire contents into the jar, effectively
filling the empty space between the sand.
The students laughed.
“Now,” said the professor, as the laughter subsided,
“I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life.
The golf balls are the important things - Family,
children, health, friends, and favorite passions.
Things that if everything else was lost
and only they remained, your life would still be full.
The pebbles are the things that matter like your job, house, and car.
The sand is everything else --the small stuff.
If you put the sand into the jar first,” he continued,
“there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls.
The same goes for life..
If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff,
You will never have room for the things that are
important to you.
So...
Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness.
Play with your children.
Take time to get medical checkups...
Take your partner out to dinner.
There will always be time
to clean the house and fix the dripping tap.
Take care of the golf balls first --
The things that really matter.
Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.”
One of the students raised her hand
and inquired what the coffee represented.
The professor smiled.
'I'm glad you asked'.
It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem,
there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend.'
When things in your life seem almost too much to handle,
When 24 hours aren’t enough in a day;
remember the mayonnaise jar and 2 cups of coffee.
The Mayonnaise Jar
A professor stood before his philosophy class
and had some items in front of him.
At the start of class, wordlessly,
he picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar
and filled it with golf balls even shaking it to fit 1 more in.
He then asked the students if the jar was full, and they agreed that it was.
The professor then poured a box of pebbles into the jar. He shook the jar lightly, and the pebbles settled into the open areas between the golf balls.
He then asked the students again if the jar was full.
They agreed it was.
Next, the professor picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar.
Of course, the sand filled up everything else; he asked once more if the jar was full.
Unanimously, the students responded with “Yes!”
The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table
and poured the entire contents into the jar, effectively
filling the empty space between the sand.
The students laughed.
“Now,” said the professor, as the laughter subsided,
“I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life.
The golf balls are the important things - Family,
children, health, friends, and favorite passions.
Things that if everything else was lost
and only they remained, your life would still be full.
The pebbles are the things that matter like your job, house, and car.
The sand is everything else --the small stuff.
If you put the sand into the jar first,” he continued,
“there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls.
The same goes for life..
If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff,
You will never have room for the things that are
important to you.
So...
Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness.
Play with your children.
Take time to get medical checkups...
Take your partner out to dinner.
There will always be time
to clean the house and fix the dripping tap.
Take care of the golf balls first --
The things that really matter.
Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.”
One of the students raised her hand
and inquired what the coffee represented.
The professor smiled.
'I'm glad you asked'.
It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem,
there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend.'
Holy Desire
9-21-2010 by Boyd Bailey
Holy Desire
“As the deer pants for streams of water, so my soul pants for you, O God. My soul thirsts for God, for the living God. When can I go and meet with God?” Psalm 42:1-2
Holy desire has to hear from heaven. There is a devotion and determination to know God in the splendor of His holiness. A soul captured by holy desire is not satisfied until it sees Jesus and the glory of His grace. It is an inner interest in the eternal that is not content with the earthly. Things of earth grow dim, as holy desire reverently reaches for heaven.
Jesus says blessings comes when holy desire is the motivation of a life surrendered to Him, “Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be filled” (Matthew 5:6). Am I willing to miss a meal, so my heart and soul can first be fed by faith? When our soul’s thirsty affections are consecrated to Christ, it has to drink from the fountain of faith and be hydrated by heaven. Holy desire must meaningfully meet God.
Where can we go to meet the Lord? We can meet Him in the privacy of our home or in the public arena of worship at church. We can meet Him in the outdoor sanctuary of His incredible creation or in an indoor prayer meeting. Jesus can be found in a hospital’s intensive care unit, maternity ward or in the humble care of hospice at home.
Meetings with God are only limited by a mind that categorizes Christ into the sacred and the secular. This is why during an intense time of meetings at work you can pray and ask the Lord to give you the love and discipline to serve people well. In your responsibilities at home you can play worship music and transform your domestic duties into a sacrifice of service to heaven. Holy desire is meant to be integrated into our faith and work-life.
The heart of a devoted disciple is captured by divine desire and holy intent. You want to know Him better, so you will follow Him better. You want to love Him better, so you will love people better. You want to serve Him unselfishly, so you will serve others selflessly. You only want Him, because you know in your heart this is all you need.
Holy desire is the need to know Christ in the middle of suffering, in the mundane activities of everyday life and on the mountaintop of happiness. Paul expressed it perfectly, “I want to know Christ and the power of his resurrection and the fellowship of sharing in his sufferings, becoming like him in his death, and so, somehow, to attain to the resurrection from the dead” (Philippians 3:10-11).
Are all of my desires captured by the one desire of knowing Christ?
Related Readings: Deuteronomy 10:12; Psalm 37:4; Luke 24:32; Romans 12:11
Holy Desire
“As the deer pants for streams of water, so my soul pants for you, O God. My soul thirsts for God, for the living God. When can I go and meet with God?” Psalm 42:1-2
Holy desire has to hear from heaven. There is a devotion and determination to know God in the splendor of His holiness. A soul captured by holy desire is not satisfied until it sees Jesus and the glory of His grace. It is an inner interest in the eternal that is not content with the earthly. Things of earth grow dim, as holy desire reverently reaches for heaven.
Jesus says blessings comes when holy desire is the motivation of a life surrendered to Him, “Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they will be filled” (Matthew 5:6). Am I willing to miss a meal, so my heart and soul can first be fed by faith? When our soul’s thirsty affections are consecrated to Christ, it has to drink from the fountain of faith and be hydrated by heaven. Holy desire must meaningfully meet God.
Where can we go to meet the Lord? We can meet Him in the privacy of our home or in the public arena of worship at church. We can meet Him in the outdoor sanctuary of His incredible creation or in an indoor prayer meeting. Jesus can be found in a hospital’s intensive care unit, maternity ward or in the humble care of hospice at home.
Meetings with God are only limited by a mind that categorizes Christ into the sacred and the secular. This is why during an intense time of meetings at work you can pray and ask the Lord to give you the love and discipline to serve people well. In your responsibilities at home you can play worship music and transform your domestic duties into a sacrifice of service to heaven. Holy desire is meant to be integrated into our faith and work-life.
The heart of a devoted disciple is captured by divine desire and holy intent. You want to know Him better, so you will follow Him better. You want to love Him better, so you will love people better. You want to serve Him unselfishly, so you will serve others selflessly. You only want Him, because you know in your heart this is all you need.
Holy desire is the need to know Christ in the middle of suffering, in the mundane activities of everyday life and on the mountaintop of happiness. Paul expressed it perfectly, “I want to know Christ and the power of his resurrection and the fellowship of sharing in his sufferings, becoming like him in his death, and so, somehow, to attain to the resurrection from the dead” (Philippians 3:10-11).
Are all of my desires captured by the one desire of knowing Christ?
Related Readings: Deuteronomy 10:12; Psalm 37:4; Luke 24:32; Romans 12:11
Monday, September 20, 2010
Trusting Obedience
9-20-2010 by Boyd Bailey
Trusting Obedience
“He replied, ‘The man they call Jesus made some mud and put it on my eyes. He told me to go to Siloam and wash. So I went and washed, and then I could see.’” John 9:11
Some situations call for trusting obedience. You know what God is saying, but you are not sure of the “why” or the “how” behind His command. What He is asking you to do may be unprecedented. This may be your first time to follow Him in this fashion and, therefore, it is a little scary.
Some people have given you a hard time, and others think you are somewhat strange; but this is the nature of trusting obedience. You have limited understanding but you still trust God. Though you are unsure how He is going to provide, you trust that He will. And many times, “lo and behold,” His provision is more creative and thorough than you anticipated. This is the fruit of trusting obedience.
This is why God blesses trusting obedience. He knows your situation. He knows your heart. He knows your needs. He is the master at connecting your need with His provision. He uses unconventional means so that He is guaranteed to get the glory. Yes, you could make things happen. You could go into debt. You could manipulate a circumstance.
You could strong-arm a relationship. You could give up or not go there, but your impatience may rob you of God’s blessing. Be obedient and trust Him with what you know to do today. Do not be overwhelmed with tomorrow. Trust Him with today. Be obedient today and trust Him with tomorrow.
It is trusting obedience that opens our eyes to opportunities we never imagined. Satisfaction with conventional thinking may seem safer, but God’s will is never too risky. Following hard after God with trusting obedience is what keeps your faith fresh and on fire. Settling into a selective obedience produces a frigid faith that facilitates a boring, barren life with very little fruit that remains.
If God is telling you to leave, then leave. If God is telling you to stay, then stay. If God is telling you to give, then give. If God is telling you to serve, then serve. It is your trusting obedience that He blesses in spades. Fuel all your efforts by faith. This will stretch you and grow you. God may not show up until the last minute.
Others may criticize your God-sized mission and your faith-filled methods. Because of fear of your failure, friends may disassociate or distance themselves from you, but once they see God’s blessing and faithfulness, they will come out of hiding and attempt to ride the bandwagon.
Therefore, do not let the fickleness of people’s support dissuade you from trusting obedience. God is the one to whom you will ultimately give an account. As long as you can explain to God your actions, you are in a good position. If you disobey God, prepare for a severe judgment.
Followers of Jesus have tasted the fruit of trusting obedience. There is no reason to return to the wilderness of distrustful disobedience. Your trusting obedience may relate to money. Hold finances with an open hand and watch God work. Money can be God’s tool to facilitate His work, or it can be Satan’s obstacle that keeps you from trusting obedience.
Listen intently to the voice of Jesus, and then trust Him and do what He says. He has your best interest in mind. His intent is not harm but healing. Your trusting obedience will fuel the faith of others and bring glory to God. You are not alone. He is with you. You can trust Him with your obedience. Do what He says. Clarity and understanding follows trusting obedience. Trust and obey—this is His best way!
Trusting Obedience
“He replied, ‘The man they call Jesus made some mud and put it on my eyes. He told me to go to Siloam and wash. So I went and washed, and then I could see.’” John 9:11
Some situations call for trusting obedience. You know what God is saying, but you are not sure of the “why” or the “how” behind His command. What He is asking you to do may be unprecedented. This may be your first time to follow Him in this fashion and, therefore, it is a little scary.
Some people have given you a hard time, and others think you are somewhat strange; but this is the nature of trusting obedience. You have limited understanding but you still trust God. Though you are unsure how He is going to provide, you trust that He will. And many times, “lo and behold,” His provision is more creative and thorough than you anticipated. This is the fruit of trusting obedience.
This is why God blesses trusting obedience. He knows your situation. He knows your heart. He knows your needs. He is the master at connecting your need with His provision. He uses unconventional means so that He is guaranteed to get the glory. Yes, you could make things happen. You could go into debt. You could manipulate a circumstance.
You could strong-arm a relationship. You could give up or not go there, but your impatience may rob you of God’s blessing. Be obedient and trust Him with what you know to do today. Do not be overwhelmed with tomorrow. Trust Him with today. Be obedient today and trust Him with tomorrow.
It is trusting obedience that opens our eyes to opportunities we never imagined. Satisfaction with conventional thinking may seem safer, but God’s will is never too risky. Following hard after God with trusting obedience is what keeps your faith fresh and on fire. Settling into a selective obedience produces a frigid faith that facilitates a boring, barren life with very little fruit that remains.
If God is telling you to leave, then leave. If God is telling you to stay, then stay. If God is telling you to give, then give. If God is telling you to serve, then serve. It is your trusting obedience that He blesses in spades. Fuel all your efforts by faith. This will stretch you and grow you. God may not show up until the last minute.
Others may criticize your God-sized mission and your faith-filled methods. Because of fear of your failure, friends may disassociate or distance themselves from you, but once they see God’s blessing and faithfulness, they will come out of hiding and attempt to ride the bandwagon.
Therefore, do not let the fickleness of people’s support dissuade you from trusting obedience. God is the one to whom you will ultimately give an account. As long as you can explain to God your actions, you are in a good position. If you disobey God, prepare for a severe judgment.
Followers of Jesus have tasted the fruit of trusting obedience. There is no reason to return to the wilderness of distrustful disobedience. Your trusting obedience may relate to money. Hold finances with an open hand and watch God work. Money can be God’s tool to facilitate His work, or it can be Satan’s obstacle that keeps you from trusting obedience.
Listen intently to the voice of Jesus, and then trust Him and do what He says. He has your best interest in mind. His intent is not harm but healing. Your trusting obedience will fuel the faith of others and bring glory to God. You are not alone. He is with you. You can trust Him with your obedience. Do what He says. Clarity and understanding follows trusting obedience. Trust and obey—this is His best way!
Friday, September 17, 2010
Effective Radical Prayer
9-17-2010 by Boyd Bailey
Effective Radical Prayer
"Again, I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about anything you ask for, it will be done for you by my Father in heaven. For where two or three come together in my name, there am I with them." Matthew 18:19-20
Effective radical prayer engages the hearts of men and women, teenagers and young adults, boys and girls. Solo prayer invites the ear of the Lord, but group prayer purifies prayer. In a group of devoted disciples God’s will is established and boldly petitioned to heaven. Prayer support from a small group gives confidence, direction and determination.
For example—the righteous—fervent prayer for those outside the faith is an effective way to draw them to within the faith. There is no doubt hell shutters when heavenly supplications seek to snatch lost souls from eternal damnation. The Holy Spirit hovers over prayer meetings motivated to glorify the Lord and save sinners. Group prayer ignites eternity.
“After they prayed, the place where they were meeting was shaken. And they were all filled with the Holy Spirit and spoke the word of God boldly” (Acts 4:32).
We pray and praise God, but Christ converts. The pressure is not on Christians to make Christians, but to pray for hearts to be pricked by God’s Spirit, converted and born into the Kingdom of God. The Lord uses prayer to soften sinners, so the soil of their heart moistens and seeds of truth take root. Pray without ceasing for Jesus to save lost souls.
“Every day they continued to meet together in the temple courts. They broke bread in their homes and ate together with glad and sincere hearts, praising God and enjoying the favor of all the people. And the Lord added to their number daily those who were being saved” (Acts 2:46-47).
The local church is a natural location to lean into the Lord in small group prayer. Also, our homes can be a sanctuary of supplication to Christ, with other liked minded believers. So it begs a question, “Are you engaged in effective prayer with other followers of Jesus?” Prayer is a team sport, it’s not meant for us to only linger alone with the Lord.
We all need prayer and we need to pray for others. It is a Holy Spirit initiated prayer movement that moves cultures and communities toward God. Perhaps we complain less to each other and pray more with each other. When we humble ourselves together before God, He hears, He answers and He heals. Effective prayers mobilize the Body of Christ.
"You will have complete and free access to God's kingdom, keys to open any and every door: no more barriers between heaven and earth, earth and heaven. A yes on earth is yes in heaven. A no on earth is no in heaven” (Matthew 16:19, The Message).
Does Christ capture my heart in radical prayer with a small group of believers in Jesus?
Related Readings: 2 Chronicles 5:13; 7:14; 1Corinthians 5:4; James 5:16
Effective Radical Prayer
"Again, I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about anything you ask for, it will be done for you by my Father in heaven. For where two or three come together in my name, there am I with them." Matthew 18:19-20
Effective radical prayer engages the hearts of men and women, teenagers and young adults, boys and girls. Solo prayer invites the ear of the Lord, but group prayer purifies prayer. In a group of devoted disciples God’s will is established and boldly petitioned to heaven. Prayer support from a small group gives confidence, direction and determination.
For example—the righteous—fervent prayer for those outside the faith is an effective way to draw them to within the faith. There is no doubt hell shutters when heavenly supplications seek to snatch lost souls from eternal damnation. The Holy Spirit hovers over prayer meetings motivated to glorify the Lord and save sinners. Group prayer ignites eternity.
“After they prayed, the place where they were meeting was shaken. And they were all filled with the Holy Spirit and spoke the word of God boldly” (Acts 4:32).
We pray and praise God, but Christ converts. The pressure is not on Christians to make Christians, but to pray for hearts to be pricked by God’s Spirit, converted and born into the Kingdom of God. The Lord uses prayer to soften sinners, so the soil of their heart moistens and seeds of truth take root. Pray without ceasing for Jesus to save lost souls.
“Every day they continued to meet together in the temple courts. They broke bread in their homes and ate together with glad and sincere hearts, praising God and enjoying the favor of all the people. And the Lord added to their number daily those who were being saved” (Acts 2:46-47).
The local church is a natural location to lean into the Lord in small group prayer. Also, our homes can be a sanctuary of supplication to Christ, with other liked minded believers. So it begs a question, “Are you engaged in effective prayer with other followers of Jesus?” Prayer is a team sport, it’s not meant for us to only linger alone with the Lord.
We all need prayer and we need to pray for others. It is a Holy Spirit initiated prayer movement that moves cultures and communities toward God. Perhaps we complain less to each other and pray more with each other. When we humble ourselves together before God, He hears, He answers and He heals. Effective prayers mobilize the Body of Christ.
"You will have complete and free access to God's kingdom, keys to open any and every door: no more barriers between heaven and earth, earth and heaven. A yes on earth is yes in heaven. A no on earth is no in heaven” (Matthew 16:19, The Message).
Does Christ capture my heart in radical prayer with a small group of believers in Jesus?
Related Readings: 2 Chronicles 5:13; 7:14; 1Corinthians 5:4; James 5:16
Wednesday, September 15, 2010
Confrontation Not Gossip
9-16-2010 by Boyd Bailey
Confrontation Not Gossip
“If your brother sins against you, go and show him his fault, just between the two of you. If he listens to you, you have won your brother over.” Matthew 18:15
It is easier to talk about someone than it is to talk with them. I struggle with this because I don’t like confrontation, however, if I really care for a person I will take the time to discuss with them their indiscretion. The temptation is to “confide” in another of the need to “pray” for a friend, without first being direct with them in a loving conversation. “A perverse man stirs up dissension, and a gossip separates close friends” (Proverbs 16:28).
Love seeks to sit down and sort through misunderstandings and discuss the dangers of remaining on a path of destruction. Perhaps your friend is neglecting his or her family or harming their family’s health. Your role is to provide a safe environment for them to see the error of their ways. Hard discussions may not immediately bear fruit, but it plants good seed.
“I planted the seed, Apollos watered it, but God made it grow” (1 Corinthians 3:6).
There is always the risk of becoming like the one we are confronting. For example, if you challenge an angry man—be forgiving—less you become angry. If you face a lustful woman—be pure—less you become lustful. If you expose a lie—be honest—less you become a liar. If you stand up to a proud person—be humble—less you become proud.
“Brothers, if someone is caught in a sin, you who are spiritual should restore him gently. But watch yourself, or you also may be tempted” (Galatians 6:1).
Confrontation without grace prolongs graceless living, but confrontation with grace attracts Spirit-filled living. Sin squirms in its dark state when exposed by the light of a loving conversation. Be direct with a humble heart and you cannot be accused of harshness. Take the time to prayerfully help someone see their sin, then trust Jesus.
“Everyone who does evil hates the light, and will not come into the light for fear that his deeds will be exposed” (John 3:20).
Make sure God’s word is the foundation of your concerns, because it carries the weight of Christ’s authority. Don’t be a self-righteous Bible thumper, but a meek Bible believer. Our opinions may or may not be helpful, but the whole counsel of God’s word resonates within a soul seduced by sin. So, speak the truth in love and watch the Holy Spirit work.
“Speaking the truth in love… each of you must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to his neighbor, for we are all members of one body” (Ephesians 4:15a, 25).
Who do I need to talk to with a humble heart, instead of proudly talking about them?
Related Readings: Proverbs 26:20; Zechariah 8:16; 1 Corinthians 2:13; 3 John 1:10
Confrontation Not Gossip
“If your brother sins against you, go and show him his fault, just between the two of you. If he listens to you, you have won your brother over.” Matthew 18:15
It is easier to talk about someone than it is to talk with them. I struggle with this because I don’t like confrontation, however, if I really care for a person I will take the time to discuss with them their indiscretion. The temptation is to “confide” in another of the need to “pray” for a friend, without first being direct with them in a loving conversation. “A perverse man stirs up dissension, and a gossip separates close friends” (Proverbs 16:28).
Love seeks to sit down and sort through misunderstandings and discuss the dangers of remaining on a path of destruction. Perhaps your friend is neglecting his or her family or harming their family’s health. Your role is to provide a safe environment for them to see the error of their ways. Hard discussions may not immediately bear fruit, but it plants good seed.
“I planted the seed, Apollos watered it, but God made it grow” (1 Corinthians 3:6).
There is always the risk of becoming like the one we are confronting. For example, if you challenge an angry man—be forgiving—less you become angry. If you face a lustful woman—be pure—less you become lustful. If you expose a lie—be honest—less you become a liar. If you stand up to a proud person—be humble—less you become proud.
“Brothers, if someone is caught in a sin, you who are spiritual should restore him gently. But watch yourself, or you also may be tempted” (Galatians 6:1).
Confrontation without grace prolongs graceless living, but confrontation with grace attracts Spirit-filled living. Sin squirms in its dark state when exposed by the light of a loving conversation. Be direct with a humble heart and you cannot be accused of harshness. Take the time to prayerfully help someone see their sin, then trust Jesus.
“Everyone who does evil hates the light, and will not come into the light for fear that his deeds will be exposed” (John 3:20).
Make sure God’s word is the foundation of your concerns, because it carries the weight of Christ’s authority. Don’t be a self-righteous Bible thumper, but a meek Bible believer. Our opinions may or may not be helpful, but the whole counsel of God’s word resonates within a soul seduced by sin. So, speak the truth in love and watch the Holy Spirit work.
“Speaking the truth in love… each of you must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to his neighbor, for we are all members of one body” (Ephesians 4:15a, 25).
Who do I need to talk to with a humble heart, instead of proudly talking about them?
Related Readings: Proverbs 26:20; Zechariah 8:16; 1 Corinthians 2:13; 3 John 1:10
Tuesday, September 14, 2010
Emotional Overhead
9-15-2010 by Boyd Bailey
Emotional Overhead
“Drive out the mocker, and out goes strife; quarrels and insults are ended.” Proverbs 22:10
Are you consumed by conflict with someone at work or with whom you have a personal relationship? Have you tried to appease them, confront them and pray for them to no avail? Unfortunately, no amount of cajoling or arguing can change the heart of a mocker. Until they come face to face with brokenness from God, they will not truly change for Christ’s sake.
Like a lease or mortgage creates financial overhead, so does a person intent on disrupting the culture of a company or a family. Mockers are made up of insecure individuals full of a grandiose self-image. Pride and jealousy drive them to discredit anyone who gets in the way of their man-made agenda. Mockers angrily attack even the most loving of heart.
"Whoever corrects a mocker invites insult; whoever rebukes a wicked man incurs abuse” (Proverbs 9:7).
It is not worth carrying this type of emotional overhead on the books of your brain. You wake up in the middle of the night fearful of what may happen next if you don’t walk the fine line of pleasing this person at work. Your preoccupation with meeting their expectations has caused you to neglect other important relationships. Continual drama from the same source is a recipe for confusion and contempt from the team.
“Blessed is the man who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked or stand in the way of sinners or sit in the seat of mockers” (Psalm 1:1).
After confronting a mocker things very likely will get worse. It’s because a scorner does not receive a rebuke or seek wisdom, “A mocker resents correction; he will not consult the wise” (Proverbs 15:12). Some relationships are a black hole of wasted time and energy. You may have to make the bold move to remove this person before their path of destruction continues its course. Let the disloyal go for the sake of the loyal whole.
You can still pray for them and love on them from a distance. Indeed, overwhelming emotional overhead is not a cost you can afford with your own emotional budget. Yes, we bear the burdens of those who are broken before God, but not those trying to break others. The Lord extends His grace to the humble, but mocks the proud consumed in their mockery.
“He mocks proud mockers but gives grace to the humble” (Proverbs 3:34).
Who in my life do I need to let go, for the sake of the whole?
Related Readings: 2 Kings 16:3; Job 17:2; Isaiah 29:20; Mark 9:28-29; 1 John 4:18
Emotional Overhead
“Drive out the mocker, and out goes strife; quarrels and insults are ended.” Proverbs 22:10
Are you consumed by conflict with someone at work or with whom you have a personal relationship? Have you tried to appease them, confront them and pray for them to no avail? Unfortunately, no amount of cajoling or arguing can change the heart of a mocker. Until they come face to face with brokenness from God, they will not truly change for Christ’s sake.
Like a lease or mortgage creates financial overhead, so does a person intent on disrupting the culture of a company or a family. Mockers are made up of insecure individuals full of a grandiose self-image. Pride and jealousy drive them to discredit anyone who gets in the way of their man-made agenda. Mockers angrily attack even the most loving of heart.
"Whoever corrects a mocker invites insult; whoever rebukes a wicked man incurs abuse” (Proverbs 9:7).
It is not worth carrying this type of emotional overhead on the books of your brain. You wake up in the middle of the night fearful of what may happen next if you don’t walk the fine line of pleasing this person at work. Your preoccupation with meeting their expectations has caused you to neglect other important relationships. Continual drama from the same source is a recipe for confusion and contempt from the team.
“Blessed is the man who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked or stand in the way of sinners or sit in the seat of mockers” (Psalm 1:1).
After confronting a mocker things very likely will get worse. It’s because a scorner does not receive a rebuke or seek wisdom, “A mocker resents correction; he will not consult the wise” (Proverbs 15:12). Some relationships are a black hole of wasted time and energy. You may have to make the bold move to remove this person before their path of destruction continues its course. Let the disloyal go for the sake of the loyal whole.
You can still pray for them and love on them from a distance. Indeed, overwhelming emotional overhead is not a cost you can afford with your own emotional budget. Yes, we bear the burdens of those who are broken before God, but not those trying to break others. The Lord extends His grace to the humble, but mocks the proud consumed in their mockery.
“He mocks proud mockers but gives grace to the humble” (Proverbs 3:34).
Who in my life do I need to let go, for the sake of the whole?
Related Readings: 2 Kings 16:3; Job 17:2; Isaiah 29:20; Mark 9:28-29; 1 John 4:18
Reward of Faithfulness
9-14-2010 by Boyd Bailey
Reward of Faithfulness
“To the faithful you show yourself faithful, to the blameless you show yourself blameless…” Psalm 18:25
Faithfulness is doing what I said I would do. It is an integrity issue. Commitments are not to be taken lightly. For example, a verbal commitment is an unwritten contract. However, these can be the most risky and the most misunderstood. If we make a verbal commitment it behooves us to make sure it is plain with all parties involved.
If there is not a clear understanding there is good chance for miscommunication and a perception of unfaithfulness. The burden of responsibility is on the communicator. If we are moving fast and overcommitted, our communication skills and follow through suffer. We may assume others understand us and know what is going on, but this is risky.
Slow down, communicate more and show up on time for appointments. Less is more. Most of us would be much better off if we focused on fewer commitments. Take a relational audit, and ask others if they perceive you as being faithful to your commitments to them. Do not blame others for unfaithfulness, if this is a chronic problem in your own life. Fortunately, as followers of Christ we have Him as our faithful model.
The Lord has been faithful even in our unfaithfulness. God says what He does and does what He says. He is faithful to forgive our sin and lead us to forgive. He is faithful to convict us of sin and to lead us into righteousness. He is faithful to flood our souls with peace, joy and contentment. God understands what it means to keep a commitment—even at great cost—the death of His only son. Indeed, the Lord is faithful to the faithful.
Unfaithfulness will catch up with us, if not quickly remedied. Adultery is an example of marital unfaithfulness. Yet, how many of us go to bed with other conflicting relational commitments. Do not let work, hobbies, children or money become your “mistress”. Faithfulness begins and ends with follow through with our commitments to God.
After our conversion we made a commitment to follow Christ. Following Jesus requires fidelity of faith. There are no equals to our love for Him. When He says in His word to “let our yes be yes and our no be no” then we must do this because we want to be faithful to Him and others. Yes, the Lord defines your faithfulness and rewards your faithfulness.
Your faithfulness does not go unnoticed or unrewarded. One of the greatest rewards is the gift of trust. Faithfulness births trust and grows trust, so over time you earn the reputation of a trustworthy person. Those who can be trusted with a little can be trusted with much. Thus, be faithful, so you can be trusted. Above all—be faithful—because He is faithful.
“His master replied, 'Well done, good and faithful servant! You have been faithful with a few things; I will put you in charge of many things. Come and share your master's happiness!” (Matthew 25:23)
How is the Lord faithful to me? To what commitment do I need to remain faithful?
Related Readings: Deuteronomy 7:9; 11:13; Psalm 37:28; Matthew 5:37; 1 Timothy 1:12
Reward of Faithfulness
“To the faithful you show yourself faithful, to the blameless you show yourself blameless…” Psalm 18:25
Faithfulness is doing what I said I would do. It is an integrity issue. Commitments are not to be taken lightly. For example, a verbal commitment is an unwritten contract. However, these can be the most risky and the most misunderstood. If we make a verbal commitment it behooves us to make sure it is plain with all parties involved.
If there is not a clear understanding there is good chance for miscommunication and a perception of unfaithfulness. The burden of responsibility is on the communicator. If we are moving fast and overcommitted, our communication skills and follow through suffer. We may assume others understand us and know what is going on, but this is risky.
Slow down, communicate more and show up on time for appointments. Less is more. Most of us would be much better off if we focused on fewer commitments. Take a relational audit, and ask others if they perceive you as being faithful to your commitments to them. Do not blame others for unfaithfulness, if this is a chronic problem in your own life. Fortunately, as followers of Christ we have Him as our faithful model.
The Lord has been faithful even in our unfaithfulness. God says what He does and does what He says. He is faithful to forgive our sin and lead us to forgive. He is faithful to convict us of sin and to lead us into righteousness. He is faithful to flood our souls with peace, joy and contentment. God understands what it means to keep a commitment—even at great cost—the death of His only son. Indeed, the Lord is faithful to the faithful.
Unfaithfulness will catch up with us, if not quickly remedied. Adultery is an example of marital unfaithfulness. Yet, how many of us go to bed with other conflicting relational commitments. Do not let work, hobbies, children or money become your “mistress”. Faithfulness begins and ends with follow through with our commitments to God.
After our conversion we made a commitment to follow Christ. Following Jesus requires fidelity of faith. There are no equals to our love for Him. When He says in His word to “let our yes be yes and our no be no” then we must do this because we want to be faithful to Him and others. Yes, the Lord defines your faithfulness and rewards your faithfulness.
Your faithfulness does not go unnoticed or unrewarded. One of the greatest rewards is the gift of trust. Faithfulness births trust and grows trust, so over time you earn the reputation of a trustworthy person. Those who can be trusted with a little can be trusted with much. Thus, be faithful, so you can be trusted. Above all—be faithful—because He is faithful.
“His master replied, 'Well done, good and faithful servant! You have been faithful with a few things; I will put you in charge of many things. Come and share your master's happiness!” (Matthew 25:23)
How is the Lord faithful to me? To what commitment do I need to remain faithful?
Related Readings: Deuteronomy 7:9; 11:13; Psalm 37:28; Matthew 5:37; 1 Timothy 1:12
Monday, September 13, 2010
Wise Listener
9-13-2010 by Boyd Bailey
Wise Listener
“Listen now to me and I will give you some advice, and may God be with you… Moses listened to his father-in-law and did everything he said.” Exodus 18:19a, 24
God sends people your way who offer great advice. Therefore, listen intently because you never know who may be speaking on behalf of God. These may be people you trust or distrust. Either way, do not allow pride to stand in your way of listening to what they say. Wisdom can come from the most unlikely sources; therefore, listen with discernment.
Do not be a non-thinking listener. Wise listening involves a functioning brain. The intent of wise listening is to separate the “wheat from the chaff.” For example, you may be laboring away unnecessarily in stress and anxiety. Your stress may be self-inflicted. You may need a better system for processing the needs of people.
You may also be trapped in the never-ending cycle of busyness. Your life and organization are more complex than even six months ago. You need a better process for handling issues and complaints. People are starting to grumble. You are weary and they are frustrated. The most obvious adjustment may be involving others to help you serve the people or the enterprise more effectively.
Take the time to recruit and train others. This takes time and trust, but if you do not start today preparing for tomorrow, you will wear out or even burn out. If this “choking point” is not remedied, you could lose your credibility. People will choose to go somewhere else, and you will lose your influence.
Do not try to talk your way out of your responsibilities; rather, listen to those who are offering you advice and prayerfully consider their counsel. This may be the optimum time for you to let go and trust others. Your long-term security is not based on what you control but on what you can give away.
So who in your life is currently offering you advice and counsel? Is it your wife? Is it your father or father-in-law? Is it your mother or mother-in-law? Is it your boss? Is it your employee? Is it your friend? Are you truly listening, or are you just going through the motions and not really adjusting or modifying your behavior?
There is a very good chance that the methods you have employed up to now will not propel you into the future. This time of uncertainty may be a good time to evaluate the basics of life and work. What is the purpose? What do you do best? What is your capacity? Do you value quality over quantity? Do relationships have priority over tasks? What is your motive? This honest self-evaluation, coupled with the counsel of others, will help take you to the next level of living.
Moreover, listen to God. He offers clear guidance in the Holy Bible, and many, many times He is speaking directly to you through the advice of people. Do not be afraid to ask someone, “What do you think?” Pray about it and then value them and the Lord by acting on the counsel that you believe is a word from God.
If you do not take the time for wise listening, your life will translate into foolish living. A wise listener listens with a propensity for change. Without change for the better, we become worse. Listen, for He is speaking. This is wise and healthy living. Wise counsel continues for the wise listener, but it ceases for the one who chooses not to listen. We learn when we listen. God is “all about” advice and “all over” a wise listener!
Wise Listener
“Listen now to me and I will give you some advice, and may God be with you… Moses listened to his father-in-law and did everything he said.” Exodus 18:19a, 24
God sends people your way who offer great advice. Therefore, listen intently because you never know who may be speaking on behalf of God. These may be people you trust or distrust. Either way, do not allow pride to stand in your way of listening to what they say. Wisdom can come from the most unlikely sources; therefore, listen with discernment.
Do not be a non-thinking listener. Wise listening involves a functioning brain. The intent of wise listening is to separate the “wheat from the chaff.” For example, you may be laboring away unnecessarily in stress and anxiety. Your stress may be self-inflicted. You may need a better system for processing the needs of people.
You may also be trapped in the never-ending cycle of busyness. Your life and organization are more complex than even six months ago. You need a better process for handling issues and complaints. People are starting to grumble. You are weary and they are frustrated. The most obvious adjustment may be involving others to help you serve the people or the enterprise more effectively.
Take the time to recruit and train others. This takes time and trust, but if you do not start today preparing for tomorrow, you will wear out or even burn out. If this “choking point” is not remedied, you could lose your credibility. People will choose to go somewhere else, and you will lose your influence.
Do not try to talk your way out of your responsibilities; rather, listen to those who are offering you advice and prayerfully consider their counsel. This may be the optimum time for you to let go and trust others. Your long-term security is not based on what you control but on what you can give away.
So who in your life is currently offering you advice and counsel? Is it your wife? Is it your father or father-in-law? Is it your mother or mother-in-law? Is it your boss? Is it your employee? Is it your friend? Are you truly listening, or are you just going through the motions and not really adjusting or modifying your behavior?
There is a very good chance that the methods you have employed up to now will not propel you into the future. This time of uncertainty may be a good time to evaluate the basics of life and work. What is the purpose? What do you do best? What is your capacity? Do you value quality over quantity? Do relationships have priority over tasks? What is your motive? This honest self-evaluation, coupled with the counsel of others, will help take you to the next level of living.
Moreover, listen to God. He offers clear guidance in the Holy Bible, and many, many times He is speaking directly to you through the advice of people. Do not be afraid to ask someone, “What do you think?” Pray about it and then value them and the Lord by acting on the counsel that you believe is a word from God.
If you do not take the time for wise listening, your life will translate into foolish living. A wise listener listens with a propensity for change. Without change for the better, we become worse. Listen, for He is speaking. This is wise and healthy living. Wise counsel continues for the wise listener, but it ceases for the one who chooses not to listen. We learn when we listen. God is “all about” advice and “all over” a wise listener!
Thursday, September 9, 2010
Evidence For God
Evidence For God by Boyd Bailey
“Have you comprehended the vast expanses of the earth? Tell me if you know all of this.” Job 38:18
What we don’t know about creation is as much evidence for God, as what we do know about creation. Our knowledge limitations point to the probability of God within the information we have not yet comprehended. How can we dismiss the existence of God when all is not yet known? If the proof of God cannot be dismissed, why dismiss Him?
If the nonexistence of God is inconclusive, why declare Him not here? We do not dismiss other areas of life as nonexistent or irrelevant if we are unable to fully comprehend them. We enjoy the fruits of electricity though we are severely limited in understanding it’s origin and make up. But we enjoy the light, heat, comfort and security it generates.
Most of us do not understand aerodynamics, but we like the option of traveling quickly and safely across land or sea by airplane. The physics of tons of steel floating on water are not 100% comprehendible to the average seafaring person, but most of us invite the opportunity to relax on a cruise ship. We accept and enjoy what we don’t fully know.
The truth is, evidence for God continues to stream into our knowledge banks. We are rich with informational deposits for God. Every time the sun rises in the east and sets in the west, it is evidence for the unchangeableness of God. Every time we experience multicolor flowers and the vast array of insects, both large and minuscule, it is evidence for the creativity of our Creator. Every time a prayer is answered, it is evidence for God.
Every time a wayward life is rescued and put on the narrow path of Christ’s righteousness, it is evidence for the all powerfulness of God. Every time the human body is explored in all its intricacies, it is evidence of a God’s sophistication and attention to detail. The mountains point heavenly to His majesty and the ocean waves clap for His glory and praise. The Lord God is the beginning of creation and the sustainer of creation.
“Let the sea resound, and everything in it, the world, and all who live in it. Let the rivers clap their hands, Let the mountains sing together for joy; let them sing before the LORD, for he comes to judge the earth. He will judge the world in righteousness and the peoples with equity” (Psalm 98:7-9).
And one day He will recreate a new creation, much like His original paradise with Adam and Eve. He is a creative, masterful artist and brilliant beyond the imagination of man. We are a dot on His canvass of creation, though we are a very important dot. God does not create anything insignificant. You are very, very important to your Creator. You are the pinnacle of His creation. You matter to God. Enjoy Him in what you comprehend about His creation and trust Him with what is incomprehensible.
“Then I saw a new heaven and a new earth, for the first heaven and the first earth had passed away, and there was no longer any sea. I saw the Holy City, the new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, prepared as a bride beautifully dressed for her husband. And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, "Now the dwelling of God is with men, and he will live with them. They will be his people, and God himself will be with them and be their God” (Revelation 21:1-3).
What evidence is around me that points to the existence of God? Do I really believe?
Related Readings: Psalm 19:1; 98:8; Isaiah 66:22; Zechariah 12:1; John 6:29-31
“Have you comprehended the vast expanses of the earth? Tell me if you know all of this.” Job 38:18
What we don’t know about creation is as much evidence for God, as what we do know about creation. Our knowledge limitations point to the probability of God within the information we have not yet comprehended. How can we dismiss the existence of God when all is not yet known? If the proof of God cannot be dismissed, why dismiss Him?
If the nonexistence of God is inconclusive, why declare Him not here? We do not dismiss other areas of life as nonexistent or irrelevant if we are unable to fully comprehend them. We enjoy the fruits of electricity though we are severely limited in understanding it’s origin and make up. But we enjoy the light, heat, comfort and security it generates.
Most of us do not understand aerodynamics, but we like the option of traveling quickly and safely across land or sea by airplane. The physics of tons of steel floating on water are not 100% comprehendible to the average seafaring person, but most of us invite the opportunity to relax on a cruise ship. We accept and enjoy what we don’t fully know.
The truth is, evidence for God continues to stream into our knowledge banks. We are rich with informational deposits for God. Every time the sun rises in the east and sets in the west, it is evidence for the unchangeableness of God. Every time we experience multicolor flowers and the vast array of insects, both large and minuscule, it is evidence for the creativity of our Creator. Every time a prayer is answered, it is evidence for God.
Every time a wayward life is rescued and put on the narrow path of Christ’s righteousness, it is evidence for the all powerfulness of God. Every time the human body is explored in all its intricacies, it is evidence of a God’s sophistication and attention to detail. The mountains point heavenly to His majesty and the ocean waves clap for His glory and praise. The Lord God is the beginning of creation and the sustainer of creation.
“Let the sea resound, and everything in it, the world, and all who live in it. Let the rivers clap their hands, Let the mountains sing together for joy; let them sing before the LORD, for he comes to judge the earth. He will judge the world in righteousness and the peoples with equity” (Psalm 98:7-9).
And one day He will recreate a new creation, much like His original paradise with Adam and Eve. He is a creative, masterful artist and brilliant beyond the imagination of man. We are a dot on His canvass of creation, though we are a very important dot. God does not create anything insignificant. You are very, very important to your Creator. You are the pinnacle of His creation. You matter to God. Enjoy Him in what you comprehend about His creation and trust Him with what is incomprehensible.
“Then I saw a new heaven and a new earth, for the first heaven and the first earth had passed away, and there was no longer any sea. I saw the Holy City, the new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, prepared as a bride beautifully dressed for her husband. And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, "Now the dwelling of God is with men, and he will live with them. They will be his people, and God himself will be with them and be their God” (Revelation 21:1-3).
What evidence is around me that points to the existence of God? Do I really believe?
Related Readings: Psalm 19:1; 98:8; Isaiah 66:22; Zechariah 12:1; John 6:29-31
Wednesday, September 8, 2010
Profitable Patience
9-9-2010
Profitable Patience by Boyd Bailey
“Wait for the Lord; be strong and take heart and wait for the Lord.” Psalm 27:14
Life is normally lived waiting. We wait in lines. A teenager waits for his or her next birthday. We wait for job promotions. We wait for news from the doctor. We wait for the next meal. We wait for our future spouse. We wait for a lawsuit to settle. We wait for a meeting to conclude. We wait for those who have yet to keep their commitment. Every time we turn around we have an opportunity to wait.
Why wait? Most of the time we should wait because that’s what is best for all parties involved. A vegetable gardener is a prisoner to waiting. However, this is seen as an asset not a liability. A tomato is much taster when it is red, large and juicy rather than green, small and hard. The smart gardener will wait for the vegetables to ripen, though He will nurture the soil along the way and keep out the weeds.
There is a waiting cycle that must be completed before there is worthwhile fruit. Even when your waiting is a result of another’s incompetence, you have an opportunity to grow. This holding pattern can facilitate your creativity and resourcefulness. If you did not have to wait, you may have been satisfied with how things have always been done. Now you have the opportunity to think differently.
Could there be other people or resources that can contribute to your project or plan? Because of your current inconvenience you may meet a new friend who has much more to offer than the status quo. Their experience and ideas may be the missing link you have waited for all this time. So, when things do not go as planned, see it as an opportunity to improve the plan.
Indeed, the very thing may be to provide help to another instead of being consumed with your own deal. Waiting is a lesson in loving others in spite of themselves, and it even provides valued assistance during this parenthesis in your own life. Most importantly, however, is learning how to wait for the Lord.
What a valuable asset we have to wait upon. The Lord God Almighty is worth waiting for. It is worth waiting for His joy, because it comes to uplift us when we are sad in heart. His joy brings a smile to our face. It is worth waiting for His peace that calms our soul when we are worried in mind. His peace allows us to sleep at night. It is worth waiting for His wisdom that provides discernment in our conflicting options.
His wisdom sets our feet on the right path. It is worth waiting for His strength that propels us through our adversity. His strength gives us confidence and perseverance for life’s journey. It is worth waiting for His hope that uplifts us from our despair and depression. His hope keeps the focus on our eternal reward in heaven. He is worth the wait.
People camp out to wait and see a rock star or pay big bucks to wait and meet the president. So, waiting on God should be a cinch. Waiting is fundamentally patience with God. After all, He is running the show. He knows what is going on. He knows what is best for you. He knows. He knows. He knows. You can trust Him in your waiting. Use this sabbatical-like time to get to know your heavenly Father more intimately.
Use this time to love your family and others more than any other time in your life. Allow Him to mold your character in a way that will cause others to comment to themselves that you are different. You are different because you have been with Jesus. Waiting is not just a passage to God’s blessing. It is God’s blessing. Wait for the Lord. He is worth the wait!
Profitable Patience by Boyd Bailey
“Wait for the Lord; be strong and take heart and wait for the Lord.” Psalm 27:14
Life is normally lived waiting. We wait in lines. A teenager waits for his or her next birthday. We wait for job promotions. We wait for news from the doctor. We wait for the next meal. We wait for our future spouse. We wait for a lawsuit to settle. We wait for a meeting to conclude. We wait for those who have yet to keep their commitment. Every time we turn around we have an opportunity to wait.
Why wait? Most of the time we should wait because that’s what is best for all parties involved. A vegetable gardener is a prisoner to waiting. However, this is seen as an asset not a liability. A tomato is much taster when it is red, large and juicy rather than green, small and hard. The smart gardener will wait for the vegetables to ripen, though He will nurture the soil along the way and keep out the weeds.
There is a waiting cycle that must be completed before there is worthwhile fruit. Even when your waiting is a result of another’s incompetence, you have an opportunity to grow. This holding pattern can facilitate your creativity and resourcefulness. If you did not have to wait, you may have been satisfied with how things have always been done. Now you have the opportunity to think differently.
Could there be other people or resources that can contribute to your project or plan? Because of your current inconvenience you may meet a new friend who has much more to offer than the status quo. Their experience and ideas may be the missing link you have waited for all this time. So, when things do not go as planned, see it as an opportunity to improve the plan.
Indeed, the very thing may be to provide help to another instead of being consumed with your own deal. Waiting is a lesson in loving others in spite of themselves, and it even provides valued assistance during this parenthesis in your own life. Most importantly, however, is learning how to wait for the Lord.
What a valuable asset we have to wait upon. The Lord God Almighty is worth waiting for. It is worth waiting for His joy, because it comes to uplift us when we are sad in heart. His joy brings a smile to our face. It is worth waiting for His peace that calms our soul when we are worried in mind. His peace allows us to sleep at night. It is worth waiting for His wisdom that provides discernment in our conflicting options.
His wisdom sets our feet on the right path. It is worth waiting for His strength that propels us through our adversity. His strength gives us confidence and perseverance for life’s journey. It is worth waiting for His hope that uplifts us from our despair and depression. His hope keeps the focus on our eternal reward in heaven. He is worth the wait.
People camp out to wait and see a rock star or pay big bucks to wait and meet the president. So, waiting on God should be a cinch. Waiting is fundamentally patience with God. After all, He is running the show. He knows what is going on. He knows what is best for you. He knows. He knows. He knows. You can trust Him in your waiting. Use this sabbatical-like time to get to know your heavenly Father more intimately.
Use this time to love your family and others more than any other time in your life. Allow Him to mold your character in a way that will cause others to comment to themselves that you are different. You are different because you have been with Jesus. Waiting is not just a passage to God’s blessing. It is God’s blessing. Wait for the Lord. He is worth the wait!
Monday, September 6, 2010
Infant Christians
9-6-2010
Infant Christians by Boyd Bailey
“Anyone who lives on milk, being still an infant, is not acquainted with the teaching about righteousness. But solid food is for the mature, who by constant use have trained themselves to distinguish good from evil.” Hebrews 5:13-14
Some have been saved by the Lord, but not sanctified by the Lord. Fulfilled followers of Jesus not only have their “fire insurance” from hell, but they are learning how to live for heaven. We are saved by grace through faith, and then we grow in grace by faith. Mature believers desire the meat of God’s word and are not satisfied with sipping on milk alone.
Like an infant some Christians cannot take care of themselves, much less the needs of others. They have never advanced beyond the basic teachings in righteousness and have avoided training themselves to discern good and evil. Those who fail to grow in grace miss the blessing of experiencing the fullness of God’s grace. Infant Christians are needy.
“Like newborn babies, crave pure spiritual milk, so that by it you may grow up in your salvation, now that you have tasted that the Lord is good” (1 Peter 2:2-3).
Its ok to be a babe in Christ, but it is not ok to remain a babe in Christ. So, has your faith flourished beyond your initial confession of faith? Are you growing or backsliding? It’s a sin and a shame for a child of God to not put away childish traits and embrace the truth of Scripture. Its hurts the Christian brand when Christians fail to move forward in their faith.
“When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me” (1 Corinthians 13:11).
Infant Christians draw attention to themselves; mature Christians point people to Jesus. Infant Christians are enamored by earthly rewards, mature Christians store up heavenly rewards. Infant Christians obsess over their needs, mature Christians serve the needs of others. Infant Christians forget God and worry, mature Christians remember God and pray. So seek the Lord and learn from Him how to grow in grace. Maturity wants more.
“Epaphras, who is one of you and a servant of Christ Jesus, sends greetings. He is always wrestling in prayer for you, that you may stand firm in all the will of God, mature and fully assured” (Colossians 4:12).
How can the understanding and application of Scripture become a routine in my faith?
Related Readings: Isaiah 28:23-29; Ezekiel 37:23; Luke 8:14-15; 1 Corinthians 3:1-3
Infant Christians by Boyd Bailey
“Anyone who lives on milk, being still an infant, is not acquainted with the teaching about righteousness. But solid food is for the mature, who by constant use have trained themselves to distinguish good from evil.” Hebrews 5:13-14
Some have been saved by the Lord, but not sanctified by the Lord. Fulfilled followers of Jesus not only have their “fire insurance” from hell, but they are learning how to live for heaven. We are saved by grace through faith, and then we grow in grace by faith. Mature believers desire the meat of God’s word and are not satisfied with sipping on milk alone.
Like an infant some Christians cannot take care of themselves, much less the needs of others. They have never advanced beyond the basic teachings in righteousness and have avoided training themselves to discern good and evil. Those who fail to grow in grace miss the blessing of experiencing the fullness of God’s grace. Infant Christians are needy.
“Like newborn babies, crave pure spiritual milk, so that by it you may grow up in your salvation, now that you have tasted that the Lord is good” (1 Peter 2:2-3).
Its ok to be a babe in Christ, but it is not ok to remain a babe in Christ. So, has your faith flourished beyond your initial confession of faith? Are you growing or backsliding? It’s a sin and a shame for a child of God to not put away childish traits and embrace the truth of Scripture. Its hurts the Christian brand when Christians fail to move forward in their faith.
“When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me” (1 Corinthians 13:11).
Infant Christians draw attention to themselves; mature Christians point people to Jesus. Infant Christians are enamored by earthly rewards, mature Christians store up heavenly rewards. Infant Christians obsess over their needs, mature Christians serve the needs of others. Infant Christians forget God and worry, mature Christians remember God and pray. So seek the Lord and learn from Him how to grow in grace. Maturity wants more.
“Epaphras, who is one of you and a servant of Christ Jesus, sends greetings. He is always wrestling in prayer for you, that you may stand firm in all the will of God, mature and fully assured” (Colossians 4:12).
How can the understanding and application of Scripture become a routine in my faith?
Related Readings: Isaiah 28:23-29; Ezekiel 37:23; Luke 8:14-15; 1 Corinthians 3:1-3
Thursday, September 2, 2010
Storms
9-3-2010
Storms
Life is full of storms, they are inevitable, and it’s how we respond to the storms of our lives that lead to peace of mind, success, and a positive outcome. As I write this devotional another email just hit my inbox about an individual that just lost their job; people are searching for answers.
I ran into a guy I see frequently at the gym yesterday, and he randomly asked me if I was retired. Being that I don’t know this guy, I really didn’t know how to respond. He had just finished his workout and was putting his tie on when he asked, so I responded, “I don’t know if I’ll ever retire, I love what I do. Are you heading to work?” I will spare you the response, but he clearly didn’t want to go to work, and something like, “Ya, I’m stuck in the rat race and I guess I’ll die running it,” came out of his mouth.
There are so many people with the “I’m stuck in the rat race and WON’T get out mentality.” Remember, you will get what you expect to get, and as long as you live in fear mode you better be prepared for a lot of storms. There are times I wish I could jump inside people’s heads and change the way they think. If you aren’t happy where you are, do something different. It may take time to transition, and you may have to work double time until you are able to leave the job you have, but if you aren’t happy where you are, God may just do you a favor and let your employer remove you from the rat race.
Without warning, furious storms may hit your life, and for those that have a solid relationship with Christ, the storm comes and goes rather quickly with little stress. You are able to stay focused because you understand God knows what he’s doing. You know God closes one door because he has a much better door he wants you to go through.
For those of you that have wandered away from your spiritual growth, storms my hit a lot harder and last a lot longer. One thing I believe to be true is the storms of your life tend to bring you closer to God, while we tend to take him for granted when things are going great. We need to make sure once the storm passes we don’t fall back into the trap of taking God for granted. Learn from your mistakes and stay focused on your spiritual journey because there will be more storms.
Application:
1. Read Matthew 8:23-25
2.Are you prepared if a storm hits?
3.If you are in a storm, are you taking the right steps to free yourself?
Storms
Life is full of storms, they are inevitable, and it’s how we respond to the storms of our lives that lead to peace of mind, success, and a positive outcome. As I write this devotional another email just hit my inbox about an individual that just lost their job; people are searching for answers.
I ran into a guy I see frequently at the gym yesterday, and he randomly asked me if I was retired. Being that I don’t know this guy, I really didn’t know how to respond. He had just finished his workout and was putting his tie on when he asked, so I responded, “I don’t know if I’ll ever retire, I love what I do. Are you heading to work?” I will spare you the response, but he clearly didn’t want to go to work, and something like, “Ya, I’m stuck in the rat race and I guess I’ll die running it,” came out of his mouth.
There are so many people with the “I’m stuck in the rat race and WON’T get out mentality.” Remember, you will get what you expect to get, and as long as you live in fear mode you better be prepared for a lot of storms. There are times I wish I could jump inside people’s heads and change the way they think. If you aren’t happy where you are, do something different. It may take time to transition, and you may have to work double time until you are able to leave the job you have, but if you aren’t happy where you are, God may just do you a favor and let your employer remove you from the rat race.
Without warning, furious storms may hit your life, and for those that have a solid relationship with Christ, the storm comes and goes rather quickly with little stress. You are able to stay focused because you understand God knows what he’s doing. You know God closes one door because he has a much better door he wants you to go through.
For those of you that have wandered away from your spiritual growth, storms my hit a lot harder and last a lot longer. One thing I believe to be true is the storms of your life tend to bring you closer to God, while we tend to take him for granted when things are going great. We need to make sure once the storm passes we don’t fall back into the trap of taking God for granted. Learn from your mistakes and stay focused on your spiritual journey because there will be more storms.
Application:
1. Read Matthew 8:23-25
2.Are you prepared if a storm hits?
3.If you are in a storm, are you taking the right steps to free yourself?
Wednesday, September 1, 2010
Forgetful Friends
9-2-2010
Forgetful Friends by Boyd Bailey
“The chief cupbearer, however, did not remember Joseph; he forgot him.” Genesis 40:23
Sometimes friends forget. They forget birthdays, anniversaries, commitments and what’s important to their friends. The forgetfulness of friends facilitates frustration and disappointment. After all, some of these friends have been past recipients of your help and encouragement. You have been there for them during their days of discouragement. Now when the tables have turned and you are in need, but they don’t seem to be near.
Maybe they are too busy with life, maybe they are buried in their own troubles, or maybe they have simply forgotten you. Unfortunately, some friendships are tentative and unpredictable. When adversity strikes you are able to filter out false friends from forever friends. Fair weather friends will fly in and out of your life. Some friendships are expedient for the moment, while others compound in loyalty and love as the years pass.
However, be careful to not place expectations on your friends. Expectations increase the chances for disappointment. A friend will let you down if you hold over them lofty expectations. If your friend feels the pressure to perform a certain way they will push back in fear or resentment. Friendships are meant for release—not control.
Companions are a gift from Christ. Steward them well, so you can be trusted with more. It is tempting to take our friends for granted. Especially long term friendships, because they are low maintenance and they tend to get the least attention. But, in reality even old friends need nurturing. They need a phone call, a visit or written correspondence. They need time. Friendships grow or atrophy, but care and attention fertilize a friendship.
Moreover, make it a goal for your spouse to become your best friend. You and your spouse sleep and eat together. You raise children together. You manage the home together. You budget money together. You hurt together. You laugh together. You vacation together. You are growing old together. Since you spend so much time together “doing life” it is imperative you fortify your friendship. You are not just tolerating each other for the children’s sake. Your goal is to become best friends, so when the children move out, you are not bored and relationally bankrupt. Fun friendships are intentional.
The marriage relationship is a friendship not to forget. If you ignore this friend you will wake up one day with regrets. Remember their birthday, your anniversary, and all those little things that make them feel special. When you remember a friend, you honor a friend. When you remember a friend, you feed a friendship. Friendships fatigue for lack of attention. Remember a friend today. Remind them of how special they are to you and to God. Love on them and expect nothing in return. Be a friend and you will have friends.
“A man who has friends must himself be friendly, But there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother” (Proverbs 18:24, NKJV).
Am I a friend worthy of friendship? What friend do I need to love on and encourage?
Related Readings: 1 Samuel 20:42; Job 16:20-21; Proverbs 27:10; John 15:13-15
Boyd Bailey is the author of Wisdom Hunters daily devotional and two devotional books, Infusion and Seeking Daily the Heart of God
Forgetful Friends by Boyd Bailey
“The chief cupbearer, however, did not remember Joseph; he forgot him.” Genesis 40:23
Sometimes friends forget. They forget birthdays, anniversaries, commitments and what’s important to their friends. The forgetfulness of friends facilitates frustration and disappointment. After all, some of these friends have been past recipients of your help and encouragement. You have been there for them during their days of discouragement. Now when the tables have turned and you are in need, but they don’t seem to be near.
Maybe they are too busy with life, maybe they are buried in their own troubles, or maybe they have simply forgotten you. Unfortunately, some friendships are tentative and unpredictable. When adversity strikes you are able to filter out false friends from forever friends. Fair weather friends will fly in and out of your life. Some friendships are expedient for the moment, while others compound in loyalty and love as the years pass.
However, be careful to not place expectations on your friends. Expectations increase the chances for disappointment. A friend will let you down if you hold over them lofty expectations. If your friend feels the pressure to perform a certain way they will push back in fear or resentment. Friendships are meant for release—not control.
Companions are a gift from Christ. Steward them well, so you can be trusted with more. It is tempting to take our friends for granted. Especially long term friendships, because they are low maintenance and they tend to get the least attention. But, in reality even old friends need nurturing. They need a phone call, a visit or written correspondence. They need time. Friendships grow or atrophy, but care and attention fertilize a friendship.
Moreover, make it a goal for your spouse to become your best friend. You and your spouse sleep and eat together. You raise children together. You manage the home together. You budget money together. You hurt together. You laugh together. You vacation together. You are growing old together. Since you spend so much time together “doing life” it is imperative you fortify your friendship. You are not just tolerating each other for the children’s sake. Your goal is to become best friends, so when the children move out, you are not bored and relationally bankrupt. Fun friendships are intentional.
The marriage relationship is a friendship not to forget. If you ignore this friend you will wake up one day with regrets. Remember their birthday, your anniversary, and all those little things that make them feel special. When you remember a friend, you honor a friend. When you remember a friend, you feed a friendship. Friendships fatigue for lack of attention. Remember a friend today. Remind them of how special they are to you and to God. Love on them and expect nothing in return. Be a friend and you will have friends.
“A man who has friends must himself be friendly, But there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother” (Proverbs 18:24, NKJV).
Am I a friend worthy of friendship? What friend do I need to love on and encourage?
Related Readings: 1 Samuel 20:42; Job 16:20-21; Proverbs 27:10; John 15:13-15
Boyd Bailey is the author of Wisdom Hunters daily devotional and two devotional books, Infusion and Seeking Daily the Heart of God
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