Thursday, April 28, 2011

Love Much

4-29-2011 by Boyd Bailey

Love Much


“For this reason I say to you, her sins, which are many, have been forgiven, for she loved much; but he who is forgiven little, loves little." Luke 7:47 NASB

The breadth of our forgiveness reflects the depth of our love. A person who is forgiven much loves much. Outside of Christ’s forgiveness we all have the same wall of sin between God and us. We are separated from God by our sins, but the cross of Christ tore down sins’ barrier. By faith you are forgiven of our sin and adopted by God.

“He predestined us for adoption to sonship through Jesus Christ, in accordance with his pleasure and will” (Ephesians 1:5).

By receiving the grace of God, you transition from the rags of this world to the riches of heaven. Forgiveness is cause for gratitude and thanksgiving. For some, your forgiveness was more pronounced, because your sin was more prevalent. However, the destination is the same for lost sinners—hell. And it is the same for saved sinners—heaven.

Our sin debt could have been more grievous than we realized or were willing to admit. The lust in our hearts was addictive. The anger in our attitude was caustic. Our service was self-serving. But, in spite of our own deceptive devices, God forgave us. Not only has Christ forgiven us of past sins, but also His grace cancels out present and future debts of sin. This all-inclusive coverage of Christ’s forgiveness humbles the heart to love much.

There is no place you can go where the love of God cannot find you. You can run but you cannot hide from the love and grace of God. If you are depressed, He loves and forgives you. If you are frustrated, He loves and forgives you. If you are confused, He loves and forgives you. If you are lost, He loves and forgives you. If you are afraid, He loves and forgives you. If you failed, He loves and forgives you. If you are unfaithful, He loves and forgives you. Nothing can separate you from the love and forgiveness of God!

“Neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord” (Romans 8:39).

Therefore, you can love much because you have been forgiven much. Gratitude explodes from your heart when you ponder the depths of His forgiveness. The all-encompassing past, present and future sins are wiped clean. The guilt is gone. The shame is erased. Your conscience is clear. You are freed up from sin to love. Your gratitude toward Christ compels you to love Him and people. Sin has been replaced with your Savior’s love.

He loves in you to love through you. Love is your primary language because you have been changed. You are a new creation in Christ. Christianity was not added to your life like a nice to have accessory. Instead, Christ has become your life. Can you phantom where you would be without the grace and forgiveness of God? Celebrate His forgiveness by loving much more. The forgiveness of God facilitates love. To be forgiven is to love. You can love much because you have been forgiven much!

“So we cared for you. Because we loved you so much, we were delighted to share with you not only the gospel of God but our lives as well” (1 Thessalonians 2:8).

Related Readings: Psalm 5:7, 103:11; 1 Corinthians 13:13; Colossians 2:14; Philemon 1:7

Wednesday, April 27, 2011

Wise Investment

4-28-2011 by Boyd Bailey

Wise Investment


“And the things you have heard me say in the presence of many witnesses entrust to reliable people who will also be qualified to teach others.” 2 Timothy 2:2

People are a priority for God—they are on His heart. Jesus died and rose from the grave for people. The earth is filled with people and heaven is populated with people. God created people in His image and they are a product of His grace. The Lord’s affection and holy desire is to enjoy and bless His people forever. People matter much to Christ.

Thus, as an image bearer of Almighty God, our prerogative is to love people. When we love the Lord, we love what He loves. Oh what a privilege to pour into people on behalf of Jesus Christ. Yes, we are all a work in progress and the road of relational investing can be bumpy and disappointing—but how rewarding to see faithful people flourish.

“No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it” (Hebrews 12:11).

Who at work needs your patient attention and time to learn how to become the best at what they do? If you do well in your job of training them, there is a good chance they will exceed you. When you work yourself out of a job, others are blessed and you have the joy of staying fresh in a new challenge. Indeed, people investment pays off for all.

Is there a young and insecure mom or a struggling new dad who needs your words of wisdom and your affirming support? How many families flounder for lack of confidence and understanding? Take the time to teach others truth and practical tools—and they will grow in their knowledge of how to be the best in their God-given roles.

“The student is not above the teacher, but everyone who is fully trained will be like their teacher” (Luke 6:40).

Most of all, train faithful men and women who can train others in the art of godly living. Use work as a laboratory to do what’s right. Capitalism becomes corrupt without the infrastructure of character, so model integrity in your financial dealings. Be honest and forthright with information, so all parties understand the consequences of the contract.

Fathers and mothers take the time to train up your children. Help them to understand the “why” behind “what” they need to do. Training is messy and sweaty, but sweet in its outcomes. When we take the time to train on the front end, it saves us a ton of money, time and tears on the back end. Therefore, pray for wisdom on how to invest in those the Lord has given you to oversee. Look for reliable disciples who will reproduce righteous living.

“All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness” (2 Timothy 3:16).

Related Readings: Daniel 1:5; Acts 22:3; Ephesians 6:4; Hebrews 5:14

Tuesday, April 26, 2011

Well Spoken

4-26-2011 by Boyd Bailey

Well Spoken


“Woe to you when all men speak well of you, for this is how their fathers treated the false prophets.” Luke 6:26

When we chose to follow Jesus not everyone will speak well of us. This comes with the territory and our commitment to Christ. It should not alarm us, since this is how Jesus was treated. The crowds praised Him for His authoritative teaching, but there always seemed to be a jealous group lurking. His authentic life condemned their hypocrisy. His clear teaching made the teaching of the religious leaders look complex and controlling.

Not well spoken of is the part of the cup we must drink from as a disciple of Jesus Christ. If we try to please everyone—we run the risk of pleasing no one. People intimidated into pleasing people become anxious, fearful and exhausted. Pleasing all the people—all the time is not possible—it is futile. You cannot do enough to satisfy some people.

“You don’t know what you are asking,” Jesus said to them. “Can you drink the cup I am going to drink?” “We can,” they answered” (Matthew 12:22).

Why are some people chronic complainers? Their insecurity craves attention, their pride demands attention and their pain requires attention. Their hurt has caused them to lose perspective and, unfortunately, you may become the object of their frustration. But by God’s grace you can love them through this unsettling time. You know better.

You can give them what they have denied you. Your patience and forgiveness will go a long way in loving them to Jesus. It is your life that validates your words during times of duress. Do not be surprised when others do not speak well of you. They may not have a context to understand, because they may not have Christ.

Moreover, it does matter what God thinks about you. Fortunately, by faith, God accepts you in Christ. However, your ongoing maturity in the faith is a concern of His. He does expect you to trust Him more and fear man less. He desires for you to have a love relationship with Him that is intimate, interesting and instructive. His affection is your affirmation.

When the Lord affirms your place in life, then you can rest assured. Do not waffle when the conflicting opinions of others seek to urge you their way. Your stability is in God. He is your rock and refuge. His validation matters most, so rest in Him and do not react to the unrealistic expectations of others. Only you, led by the Holy Spirit, can define God’s expectations.

There is a good chance someone will not understand your faith walk and therefore give you grief. Doing the right thing may cost you a relationship or financial remuneration. Indeed, be concerned if no one is not speaking well of you. Your obedience to Christ may draw out the firestorm of criticism from some, or it may be their subtle rejection that stings. Either way, pray for and love them regardless of their unfounded words. God knows and that’s all that really matters. Listen for His well-spoken words instead!

“ He received honor and glory from God the Father when the voice came to him from the Majestic Glory, saying, “This is my Son, whom I love; with him I am well pleased” (2 Peter 1:17).

How can I value the well-spoken words of Jesus more than man’s?

Related Readings: Luke 3:22; Mark 8:34; John 8:25; Hebrews 11:4

Monday, April 25, 2011

Death and Life

4-25-2011 by Boyd Bailey

Death and Life


“For if, when we were God’s enemies, we were reconciled to him through the death of his Son, how much more, having been reconciled, shall we be saved through his life! Romans 5:10

The death of Jesus leads to the life of Jesus. This is God’s pattern for the follower of Jesus. Death leads to life. The Cross of Christ reconciled us to God by faith. The Resurrection of Christ empowered us for God by faith. The cross leads to the Resurrection and the Resurrection points back to the cross.

You can’t have one without the other. If the cross were the finality of Christ’s work, then you would have no power to live the Christian life. If the Resurrection had no cross, then you would still be condemned in your sin. The Christian who celebrates the cross, but does not embrace the Resurrection, will live a life of defeat.

However, you do not have to live defeated, because Christ did rise from His grave. He arose to validate the significance of the cross and to prove His claims of Deity. But He did not stop with reconciliation to God. He also arose from the dead to give you His life. His resurrected life provides you with the power needed to follow, obey, and enjoy Him. His life in you emboldens you to witness for Him. His life in you sanctifies you during suffering.

His life in you allows you to persevere, builds your character, and gives you hope. It is the life of Christ that energizes you to live for Christ. You can declare, as Paul did, “I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me. The life I live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me” (Galatians 2:20).

This is living the resurrected life. It is Christ in you, the hope of glory (Colossians 1:27). You cannot live properly and purely without your resurrected Lord, Jesus, reigning over you and living through you. Without the life of Christ your faith is anemic, but with the life of Christ it comes alive. His life saves you from yourself to Himself. He moves you from reckless relationships to robust relationships.

He guides you from financial servitude to financial faithfulness. He spares you from selfish whims to unselfish service. He counsels you from irresponsible decisions to wise choices. He saves you from a life of drifting to one of determination to follow God. You are reconciled to God for the purpose of unleashing His life through you by faith. Die daily so that you can allow His life to live through you.

Do not capitulate to casual Christianity, for the tomb is empty of Jesus so that your heart can be full of Jesus. His grave is lifeless so that you can have life. The cross is about dying. The Resurrection is about living. His life in you is the life you longed for; so let Him live there by faith. Death leads to life, and life points back to death. He lives in you to live through you.

Friday, April 22, 2011

Good Friday

4-22-2011 by Boyd Bailey

Good Friday


“So the soldiers took charge of Jesus. Carrying his own cross, he went out to the place of the Skull (which in Aramaic is called Golgotha). Here they crucified him…” John 19:16b-18a

Good Friday is really good for those who have come to the foot of the cross of Jesus, in repentance and faith. It is a commemoration for Christians of the ultimate and final sacrifice for the sins of the world. Through a cruel and grueling death, Christ gave His life—His body wreathed in pain, so the sick could be healed. He felt abandonment, so the rejected could be accepted. He knew no sin, but became sin, so sinners could be forgiven.

“God made him who had no sin to be sin for us, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God” (2 Corinthians 5:21).

Oh what salvation and love—the Lord’s life consummated on Calvary. Oh what forgiveness—His raspy voice reiterated. Oh what compassion—His swollen face communicated. Oh what grace—His nail pierced hands activated. Oh what good news—His nail pierced feet initiated. Oh what humility—His crown of thorns demonstrated.

It is Good Friday, because the good news of Jesus Christ’s love and forgiveness has been proclaimed around the world for almost two centuries. Taste and see that the Lord is good. He is good on Friday, but He is great on Sunday—because on the first day of the week He rose from the dead. Friday is good—but three days later is better—for He lives!

Indeed, some who killed Him instantly recognized Him for who He was—they believed.

“And when the centurion, who stood there in front of Jesus, heard his cry and saw how he died, he said, Surely this man was the son of God” (Mark 15:39)!

Good Friday’s come and Good Friday’s go, but how is it with your soul? Does the cross of Christ move you to emotion—are you a grateful and engaged follower of Jesus? If not, embrace and celebrate the Cross. Ask your heavenly Father to restore the joy of your salvation, or maybe, you are coming to Him for the first time in faith and trust. Surely, this man must be the Son of God—who came to save you and the world from their sins.

Make today a meaningful memory of what your master Jesus did for you. Linger long in reflection of the love that flowed down, and mingled with His precious blood. See His hands, see His feet; oh what love that makes your joy complete. You serve a risen Savior, who’s in the world today—He walks with you—He talks with you—He gave His life just for you. Good Friday is good—because Jesus is good—and His cross is God’s loving gift.

“But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us” (Romans 5:8).

How can I celebrate Good Friday as a sacrifice of praise and gratitude to God?

Related Readings: 1 Corinthians 1:18; Colossians 1:19-20; Galatians 6:14; Hebrews 12:2

Thursday, April 21, 2011

Power of the Path

4-21-2011 by Boyd Bailey

Power of the Path


“… I [the angel of the Lord] have come here to oppose you because your path is a reckless one before me.” Numbers 22:32 b

The path you choose is the path you use. It may be a path of pride or a path of humility. The path may stimulate purity or impurity. It could be a path of wisdom or a path of foolishness. The path may be one of cooperation or a path of independence. Your path may be family friendly, or hostile to the health of your home.

Watch the path of success as it can easily veer down the path of lost accountability. The path you choose is the path you use. So, be very wise about the choices you make. Make sure the path you traverse follows through the woods of God’s will. Your path is a picture of overlaid choices. One after another, your daily decisions dig out a well beaten path. But do not be deceived, every path leads somewhere.

"Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it" (Matthew 7:13-14).

Your current path is not insignificant. If it is a path of preparation, then prepare well. A well prepared path paves the way for opportunity. This is the path of patient preparation. The more you prepare the wider this path becomes. The less you prepare the more narrow it becomes. The path of preparation may seem long and onerous at times, but be patient.

Your faithfulness now will bolster your influence later. The path of preparation requires persevering patience. Travel this path with focused attention. Enjoy the ride, for these may be the simplest days of your life. The path of preparation is the strong foundation of any excellent and eternally significant endeavor.

Another path to walk wisely upon is the path of personal intimacy with God. It is easy to overlook this path because of familiarity or busyness. But without a worn out path to God, you will wear out. It is a path that requires discipline, but the fruit of your faith’s exercise will serve you throughout life. When you walk the path of intimacy with God, He fills you with his peace, security and hope.

It is not a path of quick fixes, rather one of trust and endurance. Traveling a path without God is like walking in the country on a moonless night. Or, it is like running through a city during the day blindfolded. In either case there is a lot of activity, but it is filled with fear, confusion, misdirection and eventual hurt. Indeed, the path of God is not without pain or uncertainty. But as you travel on His path you are filled with His presence.

As you travel with God, be ever mindful of his guardrails of grace, love and law. They are there for your protection. They keep you from straying off His path of kingdom purpose. The worldly road most traveled is reckless compared to the less traveled path of heaven’s security. Choose daily the wise path of confession and consultation with your creator. The path of obedience to God leads to peace with God.

"Show me your ways, lord, teach me your paths" (Psalm 25:4).

Am I on the proper path to fulfill the Lord's purposes for my life?

Related Readings: Proverbs 2:15; Psalm 119:35; Luke 1:79; Acts 2:28

Wednesday, April 20, 2011

Regular Replenishment

4-20-2011 by Boyd Bailey

Regular Replenishment


“A generous person will prosper; whoever refreshes others will be refreshed.” Proverbs 11:25

Everyone is in need of encouragement. Each day life issues extract courage from other human beings. Indeed, we all are candidates to receive back courage from another caring soul. We need to hear, “Job well done”, “You can do it”, “You are a blessing”, “You are a gift from the Lord”, “I need you” and “I love you”. Like the gas tank in an automobile, people need a regular fill up of encouraging words, kind deeds and a listening ear.

Spouses especially need encouragement, so that they will feel: love, accepted and respected. Children need encouragement, so that they feel: love and the security around well defined boundaries. Work associates need the balance of many more words of “well done” to balance out the “why didn’t you?” All restaurant servers deserve a sincere smile and most deserve a generous tip. Encourage those the Lord sends your way each day: these are His divine moments.

“You yourselves are our letter, written on our hearts, known and read by everyone. You show that you are a letter from Christ, the result of our ministry, written not with ink but with the Spirit of the living God, not on tablets of stone but on tablets of human hearts” (2 Corinthians 3:2-3).

Furthermore—the replenishment of others is reciprocal. When we take a short amount of time to extend kindness and care we receive the blessing of a thank you, a gentle hug, a grateful email or the satisfaction of representing Jesus well. What a privilege it is to be a conduit for Christ and connect two people who grow to love and appreciate each other. Encouragers decrease—while others increase—and all are filled with joy by faith in God.

When you give others hope—you become hopeful. When you give others peace—you become peaceful. When you give others faith—you become faithful. When you give others comfort—you become comforted. When you give others encouragement—you become encouraged. When you give others Jesus—you become like Jesus!

Who needs a hand written thank you note? Perhaps you set a goal to write two or three caring communications each day. Maybe give a new Bible to the maintenance worker at your office—ask him or her the names of their children and give them Bibles. Invite a couple to dinner to love on and listen to how they are doing. Drop by to see a family with a special needs child, just to see how they’re doing—and pray with them. No one normally complains of too much encouragement, so be a regular replenisher of courage. Most of all lead others to be refreshed by the Lord—His refreshment satisfies best.

“He refreshes my soul. He guides me along the right paths for his name’s sake” (Psalm 23:3).

How can I encourage my family and friends to be faithful followers of Jesus?

Related Readings: Psalm 19:7, 68:9; Proverbs 25:13; Acts 3:19; 1 Corinthians 16:18

Monday, April 18, 2011

Advantages to Accountability

4-19-2011 by Boyd Bailey

Advantages to Accountability


“The prudent see danger and take refuge, but the simple keep going and pay the penalty.” Proverbs 22:3

Accountability is a check and balance to assure the best decisions. It is a process of involving wise people in the decision-making process; so all options are weighed and considered based on their probability of success. Accountability works best for individuals with an open hand, whose desire is what’s best for the whole.

For example, we may to want to aggressively grow our enterprise, but wise counsel around us recommends we expand with cash and not debt. Pride may want to charge ahead and dismiss sound advice, while humility is willing to listen and wait on God’s provision. Clarity comes to those who weigh all options and wisely choose the best.

“All a person’s ways seem pure to them, but motives are weighed by the LORD” (Proverbs 16:2).

What decision do you face that requires waiting and not moving ahead half prepared? Perhaps in the process of dating a special person, you both decide in the beginning of the relationship to wait a year before you begin talking about marriage. This guideline protects you from making a rash decision you may later regret. Ask another couple to hold you accountable, as you do better when others are watching.

Who is a trusted advisor in your life that can steer you with solid counsel? Surround yourself with those who don’t directly benefit from what they recommend you to do. They are objective and free from the temptation of private gain, based on your public behavior.

Accountability is the Lord’s instrument to protect you from the penalty of prideful decision-making. Mistakes will be made—but accountability minimizes them.

“The king answered the people harshly. Rejecting the advice given him by the elders, he followed the advice of the young men [who had grown up with him v.10]” (1 Kings 12:13-14a).

Accountability is Almighty God’s answer to you trying to figure out life alone. Do not waste time floundering around by yourself—moreover, avoid dangerous decisions by slowing down and discerning the right path for you. The Lord will lead you if you listen to those who know you well and who want His very best for you. The greatest advantage of accountability is remaining in God’s will and not discrediting years of faithfulness. We do better when others are watching, so open up and let them see what God already knows.

“You have searched me, LORD, and you know me. You know when I sit and when I rise; you perceive my thoughts from afar. You discern my going out and my lying down; you are familiar with all my ways” (Psalm 139:1-3).

What area of my life do I need to open up to the accountability of trusted advisors?

Related Readings: Psalm 139:23-24; Proverbs 24:12; 26:12; 2 Thessalonians 3:1

Sunday, April 17, 2011

Radical Restoration

4-18-2011 by Boyd Bailey

Radical Restoration


“Though you have made me see troubles, many and bitter, you will restore my life again; from the depths of the earth you will again bring me up. You will increase my honor and comfort me once again.” Psalm 71:20-21

The need for restoration implies something has been lost or taken away. The joy of your salvation is gone. It is in need of restoration. Your passion for God has become apathetic. It is in need of restoration. Your marriage has grown stale. It is in need of restoration. Your career path is at a dead end. It needs restoration. Your life in general seems to be in a downward spiral. It desperately needs restoring. The need is there and now is the time to begin the restoration process.

Restore means to bring back into existence. An old dilapidated house can be restored with fresh paint, wood and a lot of hard work. Antique furniture stored in a dusty but dry barn can be brought out, cleaned up, stripped and restored to its original look and design. Restoration is a beautiful process to watch. The old passes away and new becomes front and center. It is a metamorphosis, a changing of the guard. Objects are restored all the time, but few people take the time to restore their lives.

Just like a soiled piece of wood, the stain from your sin needs to be removed. It may take some abrasion from God’s heavenly sandpaper to remove its effect. Your bad habits may cover your life like dust on an original oil painting. Begin the process of letting God and others clean off the surface of your life and then work their way down into the depths of heart change.

Restoration can happen, but it takes time. What took you years to “behave yourself into” will probably not experience a full restoration overnight. You need to stay committed to the process and stay engaged with God, because He is the father of restoration. This is His expertise, and His completed work is breathtaking. the restoring work that God can do with a submitted life is truly amazing.

You have tasted the freedom of God’s forgiveness. It is still there for the taking. Do not let your shame keep you from asking for forgiveness. Restoration begins by asking for forgiveness. This is foundational. Restoration is predicated on honesty. You have to be honest with God, yourself and others about your blind spots, bad habits and wrong perspectives. Honesty is the best attitude for restoration.

You have to understand where you are and what needs to happen to move you forward. Restoration implies that it will not be pain free and it will cost you something. But it will be more than worth the effort. It may take gallons of stripper to clean away the mess in your life, but be patient. The beauty below the sin is what God has intended for you all along.

If you allow God to do His thorough work (which He does so well), there is a good chance you will receive more honor and comfort than you have ever experienced. A restored life is a broken life pieced back together by the grace of God. Your pride is weaker than before. Your faith is stronger than before. Your gratitude is much more abundant than before. Your expectations are based on God’s character, not your selfish whims. This is the beauty of a divinely restored life.

You are more appealing than the original. No longer is your faith tentative. By faith, you now allow Christ to unleash Himself through your everyday living. People are in awe of God because of His beauty in your life. You are almost unrecognizable compared to the old you. In Christ all things have become new. God has restored you for His purposes!

Friday, April 15, 2011

Knowing God

4-15-2011 by Boyd Bailey

Knowing God


“I want to know Christ—yes, to know the power of his resurrection and participation in his sufferings, becoming like him in his death, and so, somehow, attaining to the resurrection from the dead.” Philippians 3:10-11

Knowing God is not for the causal Christian, but for the committed ones. This intimate relationship is forged on the anvil of adversity and expressed through the power of Christ’s resurrected life. Knowing God requires dying to self and coming alive in Christ. Resurrected living is the fruit of a faith that is not satisfied with surface Christianity.

To know God is to be loved by Him, to love Him and to love for Him. To know Him is to behold Him in the glory of His holiness and to bow down in humble worship. To know Christ is to receive His comfort and to carry on a caring conversation with Him. It is going deep in knowledge and understanding of God, so we can carry His character and faith far and wide. Knowing God leads to making God known with our words and deeds.

“Know that the LORD is God. It is He who made us, and we are His; we are His people, the sheep of His pasture. Enter His gates with thanksgiving and His courts with praise; give thanks to Him and praise His name” Psalm 100:3-4

Knowing God grows your character, as intimacy with Him influences you to be like Him. Christ’s character begins to transform your character. His influence in your life broadens your influence in other lives. Indeed, your depth of character determines your breadth of influence. Grow in grace, so you can export grace throughout your circle of influence.

But, be careful not to compare your character standard to others—even other Christians. Comparison games are the enemy’s game plan to get you off track of trust in Jesus. Pride will puncture your ballooning influence when you begin to take credit for what only the Lord can do. The more you know God—the less you see of yourself and the more you see of Him and others. You know Christ in His death, accompanied by a radical resurrection.

How do you grow to know Him better? It happens in the margins of life, not in a packed schedule with no room for interruptions. A frantic pace lacks grace. A hurried life is tired—unable to trust and give back. Start by slowing down and calendaring time with Christ. Be with Him, so you can hear Him, get to know Him and be changed by Him. Then the depth your character will grow the breadth of your influence—for His glory!

“For You are great and do marvelous deeds; You alone are God. Teach me Your way, LORD, that I may rely on Your faithfulness; give me an undivided heart, that I may fear Your name” (Psalm 86:10-11).

How am I growing in my knowledge of God? How is He transforming my character and broadening my influence for Him?

Related Readings: 1 Chronicles 16:24; Isaiah 45:24; 54:11; Matthew 21:42; John 5:29

Thursday, April 14, 2011

Quality of Life

4-14-2011 by Boyd Bailey

Quality of Life


“Walk with the wise and become wise, for a companion of fools suffers harm.” Proverbs 13:20

What does it mean to have quality of life? Good health? Harmony at home? A happy heart? Financial security? Freedom of speech and worship? A fulfilling career? Grateful and content children? A meaningful marriage? A life of significance? Peace with God? Probably some of these elements and more make up a life worth living—a quality life.

Moreover, the quality of our life is determined by the quality of our relationships. Who we spend time with is who we become. If we spend time with those wise in their finances and if we pay attention, we can become wise in our finances. If we are intentional in our faith, we will worship with those of great faith. Our life is a reflection of our relationships.

“Therefore I urge you to imitate me. For this reason I have sent to you Timothy, my son whom I love, who is faithful in the Lord. He will remind you of my way of life in Christ Jesus, which agrees with what I teach everywhere in every church” (1 Corinthians 4:16-17).

So, how is your relational portfolio? Are you diversified with people who bring value to all aspects of your life? Conversely, are you intentional to invest time and interest in those who look to you for guidance? Quality of life flows from not just receiving wisdom, but from giving wisdom. Wisdom works both directions for the good of the relationship.

Furthermore, be careful not to excuse bad behavior, because you are trying to relate to questionable company. Draw a line far away from eroding your character’s creditability. You can influence others for good, without being bad. In some situations, what you don’t do defines you more than what you do. Use business trips and vacations to model faithfulness not foolishness. Stand for what’s right—when others agree to what’s wrong.

“Do not be misled: “Bad company corrupts good character” (1 Corinthians 15:33).

Above all, your quality of life results from your relationship with Christ. He is life itself and everything good in life flows from Him. When you grow in your personal relationship with Jesus—it affects the growth of your other relationships. Relationship building in heaven—builds relationships on earth. Ultimately, Jesus is the life to model and follow. The resurrected life of Christ gives you the spiritual stamina to experience a quality life.

“Jesus said to her, “I am the resurrection and the life. The one who believes in me will live, even though they die; and whoever lives by believing in me will never die. Do you believe this”? Yes, Lord,” she replied, “I believe…” (John 11:25-27a).

Who are the wise people I spend time with? Am I investing in quality relationships?

Related Readings: Psalm 56:13; 2 Corinthians 6:14; Philippians 2:1-4; 1 John 1:7

Sunday, April 10, 2011

Everyone's Battle

4-11-2011 by Boyd Bailey

Everyone’s Battle


“I do not understand what I do. For what I want to do I do not do, but what I hate I do.” Romans 7:15

Everyone battles bad behavior. Becoming a Christian does not obliterate bad behavior. Becoming a Christian gives you the Spirit of Christ in which to choose good behavior. However, the battle still rages. We know the eternal war is won with our salvation in Christ, but the temporal battle with sin does not cease at salvation. You are naïve to think otherwise. It is spiritual warfare that requires spiritual weapons.

Fighting behavioral battles in your own strength leads to defeat. Do not be cocky with your Christianity. It is not a safety net for bad choices. Rather, it is the power of God for wise decision-making. Still the battle over bad behavior is a daily engagement. You know you need to be patient, but you lose your temper instead.

You know you need not covet another woman, but your lust lingers. You know you are to exercise forgiveness, but you harbor resentment. You practice peace “faking” when you should be humbly confronting. You lie when you know you should be honest and trust God with the outcome. Your pride and ego self-promotes, while you know in your heart you should give God and others the credit and the glory.

These conflicting behaviors do not go away. You find yourself feeling defeated, because you once again gave in to behaving badly. How can this cycle cease? How can we prepare for this sly suicide bomber of bad behavior? This self-inflicted terrorism can drive you crazy. It can even lead you to give up on God. “After all,” you say, “this is the guilt I gave up at salvation.” The battle over behavior is wearisome, but do not give in or give up.

God cares. God understands. He is there with you moment by moment. In spite of behaving badly, you are not any less a Christian. And He does not love you any less. He feels for you in your conflicting emotions and actions. Most of the time He will not erase the negative consequences of your sin, but He will certainly stay with you during this disruptive time. God does not flee from your failures. He is there to help you pick up the pieces. He is there to help you learn from your mistakes. He equips and empowers you to win this particular behavioral battle in the future.

Do not be overwhelmed by the onslaught of the enemy on multiple fronts of your life. Fight each battle one at a time and watch God win. Seek out a mentor to coach you into wise living. Learn how to depend on the Spirit of God living through you. His grace is sufficient. He who lives in you is greater than he who lives in the world. No behavior, no matter how bad, can separate you from the love of your heavenly Father.

There is no condemnation in Christ Jesus. Start by being honest about the ugliness of sin that still seeks to influence your attitude and behavior. Become more self-aware of blind spots that cripple your relational effectiveness with others. Learn how to live by faith and not by sight. Seek reconciliation with another you may have offended or who may have offended you.

Avoid magazines and web sites that flame your lust. These are everyone’s battles, and these are battles that can be won. Fight with the weapons of God’s wisdom and truth, and not man’s ingenuity. Let Him fight on your behalf. Be accountable to God and man. Move beyond the guilt of failure to the non-condemnation in Christ. In Christ is everything we need to fight everyone’s battle!

Friday, April 8, 2011

Persuit of Wisdom

4-8-2011 by Boyd Bailey

Pursuit of Wisdom


“If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you. But when you ask, you must believe and not doubt.” James 1:5-6a

Pursuit. It is what we all experience. We pursue dreams, we pursue jobs, we pursue opportunities, we pursue a husband or a wife, we pursue hobbies, we pursue friends, we pursue adventure, we pursue good health, we pursue success, we pursue significance and we pursue happiness—to name a few of our positive pursuits. Indeed, what we pursue becomes the focus of what we do.

Pursuit is stated clearly as a priority in the United States Declaration of Independence: “Life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness”. Over the course of history, the human race as a whole, would agree that the pursuit of good things is an inalienable right of individuals. Conversely, we can choose to chase after unhealthy pursuits like: greed, lust, power and pride. Wise pursuits facilitate good outcomes, while foolish pursuits produce bad results.

“The wise inherit honor, but fools get only shame” (Proverbs 3:35).

Our pursuits make up who we are, thus it’s important that we pursue the right things. If you were honest, would a pursuit of wisdom make the top ten list of your life’s pursuits? Ask God if wisdom is His priority for your pursuits. If wisdom is the knowledge of what’s right and the judgment to rightly act on that knowledge, then anyone is capable of learning and applying wisdom. Perhaps—based on the day of the month—you begin by daily reading one of the 31 chapters in Proverbs. God gives wisdom to believing seekers.

“For the foolishness of God is wiser than human wisdom, and the weakness of God is stronger than human strength” (1 Corinthians 1:25).

Does the pursuit of wisdom motivate your actions? Is it a part of your portfolio of pursuits? If not, consider moving it up toward the top of your list. After all, wise-decision making affects all of your other pursuits. It could be argued that a life full of wisdom will lead to the most fulfilling life, but a life void of wisdom sets the stage for foolish living. What we pursue becomes the focus of what we do, so endeavor to seek God’s wisdom.

“Cynics look high and low for wisdom—and never find it; the open-minded find it right on their doorstep” (Proverbs 14:6, The Message)!

Do I passionately pursue wisdom from God? How can I align my pursuits with His?

Related Readings: Job 28:27-28; Ecclesiastes 4:13; 10:12; 1 Corinthians 3:18

Thursday, April 7, 2011

Attractive Evangelism

4-7-2011 by Boyd Bailey

Attractive Evangelism


“A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.” John 13:34-35

Love is irresistible for those in search of a Savior. Everyone whose heart aches for authentic relationships will take notice when they see Christians love one another. Parents who encourage and build up their sons and daughters are a magnet to the friends of their children that live lonely lives in a discouraging and disrupted home environment.

Have you thought of your home as a sanctuary for seeking souls? Every time a neighbor drops by, a friend stays overnight or you host a party for your child’s team—you have an opportunity to model the love of Jesus toward those you know and to those who you meet for the first time. Leverage love for the Lord and He will draw people to Himself.

“Share with the Lord’s people who are in need. Practice hospitality” (Romans 12:13).

Being a disciple of Jesus does have its benefits, and being loved is close to the top. When you placed your faith in Christ, you became a giver and receiver of Christian love. So, don’t resist the righteous care that Christ’s followers extend on your behalf. Be glad that you can model for those around you the love of God’s children that can melt the hearts of outside observers. Why—they ask—do people give so much expecting nothing in return?

How do you intentionally love your brothers and sisters in Christ? Do you share relationships, money, your vacation home, your primary residence or your car? It may be showing up during a health issue, praying for a job interview, babysitting their little one or mowing their grass. Unbelievers take notice when believers lavishly love each other.

“You, my brothers and sisters, were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to indulge the flesh; rather, serve one another humbly in love” (Galatians 5:13).

Our capacity to love is only limited by the Lord’s capacity to love on us, to love in us and to love through us. His love removes our insensitive heart and replaces it with sensitivity. The Almighty’s agape love arranges our priorities around the needs of others first and ours second. His love first comforts pain in people—then waits for the appropriate time to administer truth. This level of unconditional love is a conduit for the lost to know Christ.

“Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. No one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God lives in us and his love is made complete in us” (1 John 4:11-12).

Am I receiving God’s love? Who do I know that needs my unselfish love and attention?

Related Readings: 2 Corinthians 13:11; 1 Thessalonians 4:9; 3 John 1:7-8

Tuesday, April 5, 2011

Emotional Suffering

4-6-2011 by Boyd Bailey

Emotional Suffering


“Then he said to them, “My soul is overwhelmed with sorrow to the point of death. Stay here and keep watch with me.” Going a little farther, he fell with his face to the ground and prayed, “My Father, if it is possible, may this cup be taken from me. Yet not as I will, but as you will.” Matthew 26:38-39

Jesus suffered emotionally and physically. Anguished, He welled up in His soul from betrayal, aloneness and the anticipation of a cruel death on a rugged cross. His righteous response was to cry out to His heavenly Father for relief—while trusting that His will be done. Do you find yourself in this tension of trust in God’s will? Are your emotions ravished by the pain of conflicting desires? It’s in our dark night of the soul that the Lord brings light.

Your emotions may be on the brink of brokenness from relationships that compete for your attention. You can’t please everyone all the time—your stomach is knotted up—you’re not sure what to do, you feel conflicted and confused. Maybe the loyalty of someone you thought valued your professional relationship has melted in the face of financial pressures. Aloneness has diluted your confidence in your ability to understand what God wants.

It’s during these times of emotional upheaval that we need to jettison feeling sorry for ourselves and determine not to give up on God and His game plan. Some people you thought would be there for you will wander away—but others you did not expect to show up—will come forward with faith in you and hope in heaven. So wait—worry will pass.

“Have mercy on me, my God, have mercy on me, for in you I take refuge. I will take refuge in the shadow of your wings until the disaster has passed” (Psalm 57:1)

Be wise and avoid making life-altering decisions during times of extended emotional experiences. If you vow to get someone back with your passive defiance—it will eat away at the joy in your heart. If anger is driving your decision to fire someone at work or to file for divorce, then wait and let the Holy Spirit stabilize your stress and strengthen your faith.

Above all, seek the comfort of Christ during intense conflict and confusion. His warm embrace soothes your bruised feelings and heals your broken heart. Seek out friends whose acceptance, accountability and prayers prove to be the hands and feet of Jesus. Alone you will simmer in sinful attitudes, but with God and godly company you will discover and follow His will. Emotional suffering is healed by heaven’s hope.

“Faith and love that spring from the hope stored up for you in heaven” (Colossians 1:5a).

What decision do I need to wait on until the Holy Spirit stabilizes my emotions?

Related Readings: 2 Samuel 22:23; Psalm 9:9; Nahum 1:7; Acts 28:27

Monday, April 4, 2011

Wealth's Source

4-5-2011 by Boyd Bailey

Wealth’s Source


“You may say to yourself, ‘My power and the strength of my hands have produced this wealth for me.’ But remember the Lord your God, for it is He who gives you the ability to produce wealth, and so confirms His covenant, which He swore to your forefathers, as it is today.” Deuteronomy 8:17-18

God is the source of wealth. He has the ability to give it, and He has the ability to take it. Wealth is not a result created by ourselves, but by Him. We have skills, but He gave us the skills. We have intelligence, but He gave us the intelligence. We have business acumen, but He gave us business acumen. We work hard, but He gave us the drive and the health to work hard. Wealth’s creation and accumulation comes back to God.

He is the “brains” behind the operation. He gives us the abilities to produce wealth. Whenever we forget this, we begin slipping down the slippery slope of pride and self-sufficiency. Indeed, it was easier to depend on God when you had nothing. Now that you have more than you ever dreamed, it is tempting to not credit King Jesus with your wealth and resources. He is not a silent or passive partner with you.

He is the owner of you and your assets. And as owner He deserves and desires full disclosure of His powerful position. Therefore, this does beg a very significant question. How does God expect me to steward the wealth He has entrusted to me? Of course it is not the “bigger barn” syndrome of lavishing all these resources on my wants and desires.

Indeed, a good place to start is with the poor. The poor are prevalent in unprecedented numbers. However, their screams are silent, so they still lack the proper attention God desires. The poor are mostly “out of sight,” thus “out of mind,” in the life of the wealthy. But the heart of Christ breaks for the poor. His heart for the poor is “top of mind.” This is His desire for His followers. The poor do not deserve what is left over. They deserve “first dibs.” We need to direct our front line giving to the poor and needy. Rub elbows with the poor, and you will give to the poor!

Wealth is a huge responsibility not to be taken lightly. If you take credit for it, you have your reward. Your control of wealth without regard to God’s heart assures an earth-bound reward. However, wealth invested and given to heavenly endeavors produces results and rewards way beyond this life. This is a promise of God. Pride facilitates spiritual amnesia.

The less needy you become, the more you drift from your greatest source of need, Almighty God. In reality, the more you have, the more you need God. You can only handle wealth well with God’s guidance. Otherwise, you are too guarded by greed, obsessed with opulence, or faith-frozen by fear. God’s guidance will free you through generosity and unleash you to pursue Kingdom initiatives.

So never forget that He is the source of your strength, the provider of your power, the wellspring of your wisdom, the artist of your abilities and the underpinning of your wealth. You remain “blessable” and blessed when you are quick to give Him the credit for your success. Your model of dependence on Him in an independent environment will lead your children to do the same. Stay relentlessly reliant on your Savior and Lord. Then wealth remains a blessing and not a burden. Use the world’s wealth as leverage for other-worldly purposes. This is confirmation of a growing relationship with Jesus Christ. Therefore, grow wealth and give wealth for His glory!

Saturday, April 2, 2011

Follow Him

4-4-2011 by Boyd Bailey

Follow Him


“And anyone who does not carry his cross and follow me cannot be my disciple.” Luke 14:27

You follow Jesus because of His invitation and His worthiness. You follow Jesus because His way is the best way and because you are His disciples. You follow Jesus because there is none other who offers an abundant life on earth and eternal life in heaven. You follow the Lord because He leads you toward His will. He is worth following because He can be trusted; He will never lead you astray. The Lord’s leadership is perfect, potent, and practical. Therefore, pursue Him as a faithful follower. Do not hold back one ounce of obedience and loyalty to your leader, Jesus Christ. Where He leads you, follow. Where He sends you, go. His path will be painful at times, but it is in your pain that He purifies. Follow Him and you will be forever grateful, for He does not disappoint.

Follow Him through your difficult days. Do not give in to the temptation to quit. Where else is there to go? This is the insightful question Peter posed out of frustration (John 6:68). It is in your adversity that you desire the Almighty. He is not occupied with a celestial distraction somewhere far away. He is still leading you through this valley of despair. Do not give up on Him, for He has not given up on you. He still lovingly leads even though your soul feels resistance. He will pull you through this present predicament. Use this time of challenge to strengthen your faith in Him. Stay behind Jesus, and depend on His wisdom and care. If He can handle the forces of hell, He can handle whatever circumstance is crushing your confidence.

Follow Him through the fog of fear. He is just ahead and can be trusted without reservation. Follow Him in your success. These good days may be for a season, so shower all the glory of God over your accomplishments. Progress and positive results are cause for celebration and praise to the Lord. Make sure everyone knows that you answer to a higher authority in Almighty God. He is the reason for your financial rewards and your accolades from impressed onlookers. Success is meant to inspire us to follow Him with even more abandon and humility. The momentum your Maker has given you is there to propel you ahead in faithfulness. Follow Him through this season of success so you will not be tempted to depend on self. Self- followers self-destruct. Jesus-followers, on the other hand, handle success with humility. Give God the glory during these good times. Leverage the Lord’s blessing for His Kingdom. Follow Him.

Lastly, follow Him and become fishers of men (Mark 1:17). Jesus is in the soul-saving business. So, as you follow the Lord you become very interested in His business. You take stock in saving souls because this is the industry of His Kingdom. His investments provide the greatest long-term return. You fish for men and women because your heavenly Father longs for their love and loyalty. You follow Him so others may follow Him. Follow Him so your family, friends, and foes may follow Him. Faithfully follow God, and you will inspire others to do the same. Disciples follow their wise and loving leader, Jesus.

Friday, April 1, 2011

Meaningful Memories

4-1-2011 by Boyd Bailey

Meaningful Memories


“Aware of this Jesus said to them, ‘Why are you bothering this woman? She has done a beautiful thing to me.”… I tell you the truth, wherever this gospel is preached throughout the world, what she has done will also be told, in memory of her.” Matthew 26:10, 13

How do you want to be remembered? How will your obituary read? Will it point to God? We will all have memories that reflect our lives. Our past experiences may be pint sized—built around us. Or they may be bigger than life, because they are built around Christ. Your defining moments are building a memorial that will extend into the future.

There are spectators watching you assemble this life memorial. Your family is watching. Your friends are watching. Your acquaintances are watching. The world is watching. Most importantly, God is watching. So, intentionally intertwine in your life other liked minded Christians, creating a beautiful mosaic of God’s faithfulness.

For example, you may want to initiate a monthly meeting or phone call with your son-in-law or daughter-in law. Guard this time on your calendar as an opportunity to mentor and love on your loved ones. Let them talk about what God is teaching them, what they are learning from their family and the biggest challenges they face.

As you construct your life memorial consider a few things. Ponder the wisdom of making God your foundation. When He is your foundation your memorial will stand for eternity. The memory of your life: your acts of service for Christ and others may fade overtime, but your God based foundation will remain as a legacy that is perpetuated by your family.

Indeed, build into the architecture of your beautiful memorial eternal financial investments for Jesus. Leverage your resources for God’s Kingdom. It may be bricks and mortar that represents churches, schools, hospitals, businesses, community centers or homes. Whatever you build, build for the glory of God dwellings with eternal significance.

However, one word of caution is necessary. A Christ-centered charter governed by God-fearing leaders is required to keep an institution pure to its mission. As much or more time and money needs to be spent on preserving mission integrity, as if on the construction of buildings. Otherwise, your memorial to Christ may very well be hijacked by heresy.

Moreover, your memorial may consist of paying for the Christian education of your grandchildren. It may be funding initiatives and projects that leverage evangelism and discipleship in a country outside of yours. Your memorial building may involve serving Jesus in some obscure and remote part of the world without fanfare or appreciation. Whatever you do, do as unto the Lord. Resist the critics and embrace Christ. Indeed, our Lord and His faithful followers do not dismiss memories and memorials for His glory.

“Cornelius stared at him in fear. “What is it, Lord?” he asked. The angel answered, “Your prayers and gifts to the poor have come up as a memorial offering before God” (Acts 10:4).

What memories am I creating for Christ? How do I want to be remembered?

Related Readings: Joshua 4:7; Isaiah 56:5; 1 Thessalonians 1:3; 2 Peter 1:15