Sunday, October 30, 2011

Effective Accountability

10-31-2011 by Boyd Bailey

Effective Accountability


“As iron sharpens iron, so one man sharpens another.”
Proverbs 27:17

Accountability is essential for the follower of Jesus Christ. We are accountable to God and man. Accountability comes in many forms, but the results are the same. The outcomes of accountability are integrity to our commitments and follow through in God’s will for our lives. We all do better when others are watching.

The details of your life may be blurry to most. But, when you surround yourself with trusted advisers, by faith you give them the reading glasses to your heart and soul. They see and understand your motives—the good and the bad reasons why you do what you do. Unencumbered, you share with them your struggles, sins, and fears.

Accountability is a safe and trusting environment. Through it you slow down and take the time to allow the hard questions—questions that deal with your time in God’s Word, your thought life, your financial health, your marriage, your work, and your time, to name a few. Nothing is off limits or sacred to the truly accountable. Accountability is most effective when you sincerely submit to others. It’s no good if you limit your accountability to individual silos, because you can hide behind these linear relationships.

It is when you invite collaboration and a small group perspective that you open yourself up to a 360-degree evaluation. It is easier to fool the one than the whole. Find a small group of four or five with whom you can grow old together—people who can smell you blowing smoke miles away when it is only a small cloud on the horizon. They can read you because they really know you.

They know your tendency to drink too much, to blow up in a fit of rage, or to take your wife for granted. They know how your unguarded strength can become your greatest weakness. They help you keep these pitfalls in check, but they also affirm your progress and success. Accountability is as much a positive reinforcement as it is a negative warning or rebuke. Ultimately, true accountability partners point you to God.

God is the standard. His Word holds the rules of the game. When an issue is under debate, biblical principles veto anything that smells of foolishness. Submission and obedience to God is the foundation and the goal of accountability. He is still there when no one is watching. He understands the motives of our hearts when we ourselves are confused.

Fear of God is good and effective accountability. What you say and do does matter. It matters for today and it matters for eternity. Your respect and love for God becomes so strong that you want to do His will no matter what. Your desire to grow in His character is what drives your life. This type of God-conscious living grows your accountability over time. You discover God’s expectations on your life that you never knew existed.

And, you become freed up to know that in some areas you have imposed limits on your life that God never intended. You have limited yourself with self-imposed restraints that are not a part of God’s accountability. Effective accountability with God requires time and transparency. Seek His face and ask what needs to change in your life. Let others know what God is teaching you and ask for their mutual accountability. Submit to God, caring friends and your spouse. Accountability leads to freedom. Be set free!

Friday, October 28, 2011

Distress Call

10-28-2011 by Boyd Bailey

Distress Call


“ I call on the LORD in my distress, and he answers me”. Psalm 120:1

Some people die a thousand deaths of distress, as it highjacks their hope. It may be the material distress of overwhelming financial pressures. It may be physical distress of a body that is accelerating down a path of pain and disease. Relational distress can be traumatic and dramatic, as couples feel confined to a crazy cycle of confusing cynicism. The rough edge of a cruel tongue can sting and sabotage your quiet confidence.

So what are the next steps when you, or someone you love is drowning in distress? Some people want to discuss their distress and accept help willingly. Others struggle to preserve their independence and behave, at least outwardly, as if nothing is wrong. Distress can define you with a humble dependency on God, or it can drive you into a shell of self-pity, that ignores Him and others. It is a facilitation of faith that provides the best benefits.

“David was greatly distressed because the men were talking of stoning him; each one was bitter in spirit because of his sons and daughters. But David found strength in the LORD his God” (1 Samuel 30:6).

Therefore, learn to lean on the Lord during lean times. Go to God first when you are unfairly treated and abused. Wisdom appeals to the Almighty in prayer for insulters, instead of insulting back in prayerless reactions. Critical cries to people undermine your character, while compassionate cries to Christ embolden your soul. A child flees first to their father or mother when they are in need of comfort, love and forgiveness.

So, your heavenly Father is poised and prepared for your passionate petitions. Prayer to Him is rewarding and profitable, as He will not hear the lie against you, but He will hear your prayer against the lie. His Holy Spirit assures you that He hears, and He cares. He is attentive to every detail of your distress, so rest in His reassurance and your soul will settle down. Above all else, use distress to enjoy your dependency on God.

“You have been a refuge for the poor, a refuge for the needy in his distress, a shelter from the storm and a shade from the heat…” (Isaiah 25:4a).

How does distress define me? How do the Lord’s answers reassure me?

Related Readings: 2 Samuel 22:7; 2 Chronicles 15:4; Psalm 4:1; Mark 14:33;
2 Corinthians 2:4

Tuesday, October 25, 2011

Captive Thoughts

10-25-2011 by Boyd Bailey

Captive Thoughts


“We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.” 2 Corinthians 10:5

Thoughts need to be taken into captivity. They are dangerous left alone to their own devices. Untamed thoughts can be alluring and illusive at the same time. They can lead you down the path of lies and destruction, or they can lead you into the open fields of truth and life. Left unattended and without boundaries, thoughts can become reckless and harmful. You become what you think, not unlike your body becomes what you eat.

There is a direct correlation between thinking and doing. Sloppy thinking leads to sloppy living. Disciplined thinking leads to disciplined living. The mind can be a beautiful agent of the Lord or a seductive siren of Satan. It is the beautiful mind of Christ that you seek above all else. But this will only happen with intentionality. Your mind must first pass through the “boot camp” of obedience. This is basic training in thinking.

The purpose of your thinking is obedience to Christ. If this outcome is not clear, then you are set up for failure. Obedience to God is the bottom line of Christian living. Without obedience to God, we have no authority or credibility. Hence, our understanding and application of truth becomes tainted and watered down. Obedience gives you the momentum to confront the enemies of truth.

Indeed, atheistic and agnostic arguments will assault and challenge your Christ-centered beliefs. Your biblical worldview will collide with worldviews diametrically opposed to grace and forgiveness. Your belief in absolutes will be ridiculed and roasted over the fires of relativism and humanism. Therefore, prepare your mind by understanding the nuances of your faith. Why do you believe what you believe? How is Christianity relevant? What historical facts point to the resurrection of Christ?

But captive thinking is more than an apologetic of the Christian faith. Captive thinking is pure thinking. Obedience to Christ can be expressed in an unadulterated commitment to Him. A pure mind is compelled by an intimate relationship with Jesus. He is the groom and we are the bride. The bride is enamored and in love with her new husband. She is captivated by her man. She wants to please and serve him like no other. It is a love relationship that won’t quit! It’s the same as we fall deeper in love with Jesus.

We want to think what He thinks, do what He does, go where He goes, listen to what He listens to and watch what He watches. Your eyes are the sentries to your mind. They stand on guard ready to act in a moment’s notice. Do not overwhelm your eyes with the self-inflicted wounds of lust and licentiousness. It is hard enough for them to guard your mind without your capitulation to sin’s exposure.

The Devil’s demons sit on your shoulder feeding you bad information, but they are powerless. They cannot make you do anything. The demons can speak lies, but they are impotent in their ability to make you behave badly. Learn to recognize the origin of these twisted thoughts, and then quarantine them into God’s hand. Thus, you give the captured thoughts of the enemy to God. God can handle these prisoners of pain.

In contrast, release the captured thoughts of truth and purity into your life. Wise and pure thoughts lead to wise and pure living. As a result, your obedience to Christ is alive and well. Sometimes taking thoughts captive is like herding cats, but stay on point. Do not drop your guard or relax your efforts. Your “Waterloo” is your mind. Stay vigilant to bring each thought into captivity. This is battle one!

Sunday, October 23, 2011

Kingdom Citizenship

Kingdom Citizenship


“But our citizenship is in heaven. And we eagerly await a Savior from there, the Lord Jesus Christ…” Philippians 3:20

Followers of Jesus Christ are not citizens of this world. This life is a pass through, as we are on temporary assignment as agents of God. We serve on foreign soil, for heaven is our home. Kingdom citizenship is easy to forget; we sometimes begin to act as if this is as good as it gets. But the best this world has to offer is of no consequence compared to even the least of what heaven has to offer; a sumptuous meal here is much better there; wonderful worship here is no comparison to the chorus of angels there; raving relationships here cannot hold a candle to the absence of sin and sorrow there; the beauty of God’s creation here foreshadows the incomprehensible glory He has prepared there; the struggle of sickness here releases to 100% wholeness there.

The enjoyment of stuff here is laughable in comparison to the value of His heavenly rewards, and the comfort of the Holy Spirit here is but an appetizer before the feast that is the countenance of Jesus. Things are much, much better back home in heaven. This is where our hope lies, ultimately and fully. Do not become enamored of, taken in by, or too comfortable with this world. It is passing by and we are passing through. The land of our origins is full of God and free in Christ. We can hold our head high because our King Jesus, rules in majesty, holiness, and grace. We are privileged to serve under the flag of His kingdom, and we represent the King of Kings and the Lord of Lords.

Yes, you are an ambassador for Christ, so it is necessary for you to remain on earth for now, for the sake of the gospel. You represent your Lord for others; so do not take your ambassadorship lightly or flippantly. Keep top of mind your responsibility to be a good citizen in the Kingdom of God. You can constantly be aware of opportunities to represent God’s concerns, and draw others into His kingdom.

People are attracted to God because they see Christ manifested in your life. They want to apply for citizenship in the Kingdom of God. Their visas from this world are torn, tattered, and limited to the temporal need of constant renewal. This is not the case when you immigrate to the shores of heaven. Your papers are good for eternity because you are now a citizen of an everlasting kingdom. Kingdoms of this world come and go but the Kingdom of God is now and for evermore.

The Kingdom of Heaven is not without battles, so fight the good fight for the glory of God, and for the souls of men and women, boys and girls, and the unborn. The war is already won; so let others know they do not have to remain prisoners of sin. They too can become kingdom citizens right now. While you remain on earth, invite as many others as possible to submit to the Almighty’s reign. Be humble, bold, and joyful of the fact that your citizenship is in heaven.

The Bible says, “But you have come to Mount Zion, to the heavenly Jerusalem, the city of the Living God. You have come to thousands upon thousands of angels in joyful assembly…”(Hebrews 12:22).

Friday, October 21, 2011

Wise Companions

10-21-2011 by Boyd Bailey

Wise Companions


Walk with the wise and become wise, for a companion of fools suffers harm. Proverbs 13:20

What does it mean to have quality of life? Good health? Harmony at home? A happy heart? Financial security? Freedom of speech and worship? A fulfilling career? Grateful and content children? A meaningful marriage? A life of significance? Peace with God? Probably some of these elements and more make up a life worth living—a quality life.

The quality of our life is determined by the quality of our relationships. Who we spend time with is who we emulate. If we spend time with those wise in their finances, and if we pay attention, we can become wise in our finances. If we are intentional in our faith, we will worship with those of great faith. Our life is a reflection of our relationships.

“Therefore I urge you to imitate me. For this reason I have sent to you Timothy, my son whom I love, who is faithful in the Lord. He will remind you of my way of life in Christ Jesus, which agrees with what I teach everywhere in every church” (1 Corinthians 4:16-17).

So, how is your relational portfolio? Are you diversified with people who bring value to all aspects of your life? Conversely, are you intentional to invest time and interest in those who look to you for guidance? Quality of life flows from not just receiving wisdom, but from giving wisdom. Wisdom works both directions for the good of the relationship.

Furthermore, be careful not to excuse bad behavior because you are trying to relate to questionable company. Draw a line far away from eroding your character’s creditability. You can influence others for good, without being bad. In some situations, what you don’t do defines you more than what you do. Use business trips and vacations to model faithfulness not foolishness. Stand for what’s right, when others agree to what’s wrong.

“Do not be misled: “Bad company corrupts good character” (1 Corinthians 15:33).

Above all, quality of life results from your relationship with Christ. He is life itself and everything good in life flows from Him. When you grow in your personal relationship with Jesus, it affects the growth of your other relationships. Relationship building in heaven builds relationships on earth. Ultimately, Jesus is the life to model and follow. The resurrected life of Christ gives you the spiritual stamina to experience a quality life.

“Jesus said to her, “I am the resurrection and the life. The one who believes in me will live, even though they die; and whoever lives by believing in me will never die. Do you believe this”? Yes, Lord,” she replied, “I believe…” (John 11:25-27a).

Who are the wise people I spend time with? Am I investing in quality relationships?

Related Readings: Psalm 56:13; 2 Corinthians 6:14; Philippians 2:1-4; 1 John 1:7

Thursday, October 20, 2011

Today's Gift

10-20-2011 by Boyd Bailey

Today’s Gift


“This is the day the LORD has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it”. Psalm 118:24

Everyday is a new gift from God, created by Him and for Him. The dawning of each day displays the light and love of the Lord’s creation. Christians celebrate Sunday, the first day of the week, as a reminder of the Almighty’s achievements, namely the resurrection of Christ. However, the work week does not need to be focused on worldly agendas alone.

Seize today as a trust from Almighty God, and steward it with a sense of divine destiny. Perhaps you pray over a blank sheet of paper (or computer screen), and then list by faith how you believe the Lord wants you to focus your time. Follow through with the difficult assignments first, execute some easy ones, and then trust God and others with the tasks out of your immediate control. Today has enough time for you to accomplish His agenda.

“Teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom” (Psalm 90:12).

Furthermore, receive God’s gift of today with generous joy and gratitude. Life does happen, some days it is much more difficult to be thankful than others. There are times when the seeds of sorrow are sown under the dark clouds of confusion, but don’t allow fear of the unknown to steal your joy and imprison your peace. Hope in the Lord means you can anticipate His faithfulness during dark times, so be still and listen for His voice.

Today is an invitation to focus on and rest in the faithfulness of your heavenly Father. Adam’s sin nature brought a day of sadness, but Christ’s sinless nature brought a day of gladness, so live in the moment for your Master Jesus. By faith and with grateful anticipation, unwrap His gift of today, and behold the beauty of its possibilities. Be glad you have only one today, and by God’s grace live it to its fullest.

“O Lord, let your ear be attentive to the prayer of this your servant and to the prayer of your servants who delight in revering your name. Give your servant success today…” (Nehemiah 1:11a).

So focus on the next right thing today and do not become paralyzed for fear of tomorrow. Today is the only day you have to live, learn and come alive. Seize the day for your Savior Jesus and watch Him do a wonderful work of grace. Progress comes in God’s timing and in His way. A day dedicated to Christ has more possibilities than a 1,000 days unrecognized as a gift from heaven. Unwrap God’s gift of today and worship the giver.

How can I receive God’s gift of today with peace, contentment and joy?

“Every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, and comes down from the Father of lights, with whom there is no variation or shadow of turning” (James 1:17).

Related Reading: Genesis 24:12; Deuteronomy 11:13; Proverbs 22:19; 1 Timothy 3:16

Wednesday, October 19, 2011

Great Mercy

10-19-2011 by Boyd Bailey

Great Mercy


“For his merciful kindness is great toward us: and the truth of the LORD endureth FOR EVER. PRAISE YE THE LORD.” Psalm 117:2 KJV

The mercy of the Lord reaches out to the vilest sinner. The breadth of His grace has no boundaries; therefore we are compelled to erupt in gratitude to God. His mercy is all encompassing, of the basest evil and grander than the greatest offense. The Lord’s mercy fails not, daily like freshly baked bread, it is warm and appetizing to all who partake.

Mercy is twice blessed; it blesses him that gives, and him that takes (Shakespeare). God’s mercy is foundational for all our comfort, and His truth is fundamental for all our hope. It is our mandate from God to be merciful to mankind; as it makes us more like Jesus. In Christ Jesus, God has shown us great merciful kindness. He made us alive in Christ.

“But because of his great love for us, God, who is rich in mercy, made us alive with Christ even when we were dead in transgressions—it is by grace you have been saved” (Ephesians 2:4-5).

Furthermore, as a follower of Jesus you have daily moments to model and minister mercy. It may be a restaurant server who messed up your order, be merciful. You get cut off in traffic, be merciful. You are embarrassed in front of your friends by harsh and unfair criticism, be merciful. Your child fails miserably, be merciful. Mercy is kind.

Anyone who does not meet your lofty standards or proud preferences doesn’t deserve to be crushed under pressure of your merciless microscope. Pride is defensive, impatient and merciless. Humility is trusting, patient and merciful. Indeed, emulate the Lord’s longsuffering and you will live a much more pleasant and abundant life.

“So speak and so act, as those who are to be judged by the law of liberty. For judgment will be merciless to one who has shown no mercy; mercy triumphs over judgment” (James 2:12-13, NASB).

So, enjoy the benefits of mercy: forgiveness, kindness, benevolence, acceptance, healing, peace of mind and reconciliation. Mercy is your friend who does not seek to make enemies. Be merciful as your heavenly Father is merciful and you will experience mercy. By God’s grace righteous actions can be reciprocated, so be merciful for Christ’s sake.

“Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful” (Luke 6:36).

Where would I be without the mercy of God and others? Who do I need to extend that same mercy with forgiveness and acceptance?

Related Reading: Deuteronomy 4:31; Daniel 9:9; Matthew 5:7; Hebrews 2:17; Jude 1:22

Tuesday, October 18, 2011

Heart Sick

10-18-2011 by Boyd Bailey

Heart Sick


“Have compassion on me, Lord, for I am weak. Heal me, Lord, for my bones are in agony. I am sick at heart. How long, O Lord, until you restore me? Return, O Lord, and rescue me. Save me because of your unfailing love.” Psalm 6:2-4 NLT

The human heart is fragile and can easily fracture under the weight of disappointment and fear. Questions lurk in the background waiting to assault someone’s confidence: Am I good enough? Am I attractive enough? Am I smart enough? Am I wealthy enough? Am I secure enough? Am I mature enough? Outside of Christ there is never enough is enough.

We struggle with these insecurities when we suffer rejection from those we thought loved and accepted us. Our trust is tortured when we experience severe relational let down. After all we ask, “Wasn’t this the one I was supposed to marry?” Or “Wasn’t I in line for the promotion, but my colleague was rewarded instead of me?” “Why do we have to sell our dream home after all these years of hard work?” Heart sickness depletes our energy.

“Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a longing fulfilled is a tree of life” (Proverbs 13:12).

Emotional and spiritual weakness dims the rays of hope that once lightened our path. But in our despair, we can’t forget that Jesus is there. The Lord’s compassion does not fail. It does not fail in its appearance and it does not fail in its application. Like a massage to a strained muscle, a warm whirlpool to a twisted ankle or a stern splint to a broken bone—God brings comfort and healing to a suffocating soul. He restores hope to the uttermost.

Is your faith moody and unpredictable? Are you hurting? If so, seek out the healing hand of your Heavenly Father. Let go of the pain of rejection and forgive the one who turned their back on you. Turn your eyes upon Jesus and look to His healing hand. Your sick heart needs the reassuring serum from your sympathizing Savior. Hope heals the heart.

“And hope does not put us to shame, because God’s love has been poured out into our hearts through the Holy Spirit, who has been given to us” (Romans 5:5).

Moreover, care for those who feel crushed under their circumstances. Be patient with their complaints, as they need the support of your comfort and concern. Like the trauma of a car accident, they may be scared and shaken. Pray with and for them to trust God and to place their hurting heart in His hands. Indeed, be a spiritual cardiologist for Christ.

“Light in a messenger’s eyes brings joy to the heart, and good news gives health to the bones” (Proverbs 15:30).

How can I apply hope in the Lord to my sick heart? Whose heart can I comfort in prayer?

Related Reading: Lamentations 5:17; Psalm 31:24; 62:10; Acts 2:26; Ephesians 1:18

Monday, October 17, 2011

Be Present

10-17-2011 by Boyd Bailey

Be Present


"When he was at the table with them, he took bread, gave thanks, broke it and began to give it to them. Then their eyes were opened and they recognized him, and he disappeared from their sight. They asked each other, “Were not our hearts burning within us while he talked with us on the road and opened the Scriptures to us?” Luke 24:30-32

It is easy to walk with Jesus day in and day out, but take Him for granted. He travels with His children, but are we always aware that He is there? It’s especially true in the pages of Scripture, where our Holy Lord Jesus shows Himself in all His glory. The written word of God ignites our faith and the Holy Spirit illumines our mind and heart to see Christ.

Are you present in your current season of life? Or, are you wishing away where you are for where you want to be? It is scary to think the Lord may be speaking in the now, but our preoccupation with the past or future can cause us to miss His heart. Indeed, God speaks in the present what He wants us to know now. He is with His children, even when we are unaware. To behold His glory requires living in the moment with Him by faith.

"We beheld his glory, the glory of the only begotten of God." John 1:14

The Holy Spirit is ever present to present Jesus in His all sufficiency. He is sufficient to see you through a nagging health issue. He is sufficient to guide you through relational ruptures. He is sufficient to make straight the way in your job search. He is sufficient to make beautiful an ugly situation. Jesus is all sufficient, for all times, in all ways, and most notably in the here and now. Thus, cling to Christ in your current circumstances.

To be present is to be silent and listen to the Lord and to listen to those who speak truth. A husband’s engaging presence with his wife is a gift of peace and security to her. A wife’s engaging presence with her husband is a gift of respect to him. Your full attention in the moment communicates genuine concern. Indeed, the Lord is ever-present with you, so you can be present with those He brings your way. Being ever-present is God’s gift.

“God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble” (Psalm 46:1b).

Therefore, learn to practice His presence in the middle of traffic or in the pressure of a deadline. Listen to the Lord, before you speak for the Lord. Moreover, be all there where you are in conversation with good or bad company. Allow Christ to adjust your attitude to selfless serving and active listening. Your presence illustrates Christ’s presence. It’s not what you say, but how you hear with compassionate ears. Being present is a present.

“Then I was constantly at his side. ?I was filled with delight day after day, rejoicing always in his presence, rejoicing in his whole world and delighting in mankind” (Proverbs 8:30-31).

How can I enjoy the presence of God and give the gift of my presence to others?

Related Reading: Psalm 31:20; 51:11; Hosea 6:2; 1 John 3:19

Friday, October 14, 2011

Lose Heart

10-14-2011 by Boyd Bailey

Lose Heart


“For the one who sows to his own flesh shall from the flesh reap corruption, but the one who sows to the Spirit shall from the Spirit reap eternal life. And let us not lose heart in doing good, for in due time we shall reap if we do not grow weary”. Galatians 6:8-9 NASB

We lose heart when we linger too long in our own strength, instead of the Lord’s. The heart cannot handle a ministry or work that features the flesh, juxtaposed to a life submitted to and scripted by the Holy Spirit. Living in the flesh flushes out faith and replaces it with fatigue, frustration and fear.

Spirit filled living on the other hand harnesses the resources of heaven, as it taps into the treasure troves of God’s mercy and grace. Prayer is the Lord’s potent prescription for not losing heart. Petitioning Providence allows us to process out faulty thinking, replace it with insights from the Almighty, and to persevere.

Jesus says, “to pray and not lose heart” (Luke 18:1 NASB).

Another way to battle soul fatigue, and not lose heart is to do good. Do good in daily doses, and your determination will come roaring back like a lion. It is small acts of goodness sewn together that create a beautiful blanket of blessing. You do good when you pay bills on time, and show up for work on time. You do good when secrets are not kept from your spouse, for doing good also means not doing bad.

Do good together, and there is a much higher probability you will stay together. Doing good done well, is detrimental to dumb decisions. You grow strong and not weary when your prayers to God propel you forward in mercy. You lose heart when you stop giving away your heart. Yes, it is a risk to love well, but you gain God’s “well done” and you receive a heart of grace and gratitude. You gain a full heart by emptying your heart.

The Bible says, “Therefore, since through God’s mercy we have this ministry, we do not lose heart” (2 Corinthians 4:1).

What good deeds does God want me to do in the power of His Spirit?

Related Reading: Matthew 5:16; 1 Timothy 2:10; 5:10; Hebrews 10:24; 1 Peter 2:12

Thursday, October 13, 2011

Harvest of Happiness

10-13-2011 by Boyd Bailey

Harvest of Happiness


“When the LORD brought back the captives to Zion, we were like men who dreamed. Our mouths were filled with laughter, our tongues with songs of joy. Then it was said among the nations, “The LORD has done great things for them.” Those who sow in tears shall reap with joyful shouting.” Psalm 126:1-2, 5

Happiness is found in our heavenly Father. It comes from seeing the big picture of where He has brought us, to where He is taking us. If happiness were contingent on cash and comfort, then the modern world would be one laughing lot. However, without heaven as the end in mind, contemporary conveniences actually work against authentic happiness.
Stuff without our Savior, becomes seductive and controlling for its cause. But joy fills our heart when we think of the Lord’s deliverance from our captivity in Christ-less living, into a life of significance. Happiness is the result of giving, not getting, of serving, not being served, and from leading people into a growing relationship with Jesus Christ.
“Your love has given me great joy and encouragement, because you, brother, have refreshed the hearts of the Lord’s people” (Philemon 1:7).

Therefore, go forth into life and sow seeds of gratitude and generosity, and you will reap a harvest of contentment and fulfillment. You will garner gladness, as you keep God and others as your goal for doing good works. Sow the seeds of acceptance and forgiveness, and you will reap a harvest of acceptance and forgiveness.

“Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows. Whoever sows to please their flesh, from the flesh will reap destruction; whoever sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life” (Galatians 6:7-8).

Most people tend to treat you as you treat them, and you can trust the exhausting exceptions with the Lord. Take a risk and get emotionally involved with the needy, and you will be happy you did. Surface living is for the shallow, scared and unhappy ones. So get below the facade and feel their pain, weep and watch God work through your tears, as you pray persistently for your prodigal. There is a harvest of happiness waiting, as you sow the seeds of selfless service on behalf of your Savior.

The Scripture teaches, “Sow for yourselves righteousness, reap the fruit of unfailing love, and break up your unplowed ground; for it is time to seek the LORD, until he comes and showers righteousness on you” (Hosea 10:12).

Who can I joyfully serve and bring a harvest of happiness to all involved?

Wednesday, October 12, 2011

Distant God

10-12-2011 by Boyd Bailey

Distant God


“O God, do not remain silent; do not turn a deaf ear, do not stand aloof, O God.” Psalm 83:1

Sometimes the Lord seems a million miles away; prayers go unanswered, loneliness assaults the heart and fear grips the mind. His arm is not shortened, but is able to save, however at times His tender touch cannot be felt with absent faith. Indeed, faith can become AWOL (missing) for any sincere child of God. It’s when the feelings of abandonment absorb the soul that a soul must stay abandoned to its Savior Jesus.

Has a temporary tempest in your trust caused you to tread lightly into the Lord’s presence? It is scary when the winds of adversity blow beyond our ability to bear them. But our Almighty God is the one who causes whirling winds to cease and hurricane gales to go silent. What we cannot control, He can. what we cannot understand, He does, and when we cannot trust, He gives us the faith, hope and peace in Christ to carry on.

“I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world” (John 16:33).

Take heart, the one who created you and the world around you, has not left His providential post. Like a military sentential that protects the people as they sleep, so the Lord does not sleep or slumber, but stays alert against the enemy on your behalf. If you feel aloof from the Almighty, then run toward Him not away from Him. The presence of Jesus awaits the hungry heart that does not give up on God. Go to Him for He is with you.

Perhaps you ask effective prayer warriors to intercede on your behalf for intimacy with the Almighty. Do not be embarrassed that the Lord feels absent; instead ask His children to come alongside you for support and encouragement. You can see Christ in normal Christians, and they are not far away. Enjoy His presence while you are in their presence.

“Every day they continued to meet together in the temple courts. They broke bread in their homes and ate together with glad and sincere hearts, praising God and enjoying the favor of all the people. And the Lord added to their number daily those who were being saved” (Acts 2:46-47).

Are there any hindrances in your heart that may be creating a crevice in your fellowship with Christ? Examine your attitude, actions and words to make sure unrighteousness is not distancing itself from the righteous One. Confession of sin creates clean hands and a pure heart that usher you into the throne room of God’s grace. Go here often and you will feel His presence in sweet forgiveness and renewing of your faith. He’s close by to care.

“LORD, who may dwell in your sacred tent? Who may live on your holy mountain? The one whose walk is blameless, who does what is righteous, who speaks the truth from their hear” (Psalm 15:1-2).


How can I pursue God with a pure heart and trust that His presence is within me?
Related Readings: Deuteronomy 31:6-8; Psalm 63:1; 139:7-10; Romans 8:37-39

Monday, October 10, 2011

Process Anger

10-10-2011 by Boyd Bailey

Process Anger


“Saul tried to pin him to the wall with his spear, but David eluded him as Saul drove the spear into the wall. That night David made good his escape.” 1 Samuel 19:10

Process anger, or it will control your attitude and your actions. Anger is a self-fulfilling prophecy of destruction, as it destroys peace and quiet and ravishes relationships. Anger is acidic, for it eats away at your credibility, your health, and eventually your ability to function successfully in life. Anger is an ugly emotion, as it easily embarrasses itself, and humiliates others for sport. It has a way of expressing itself at the most inappropriate times. For example, one outburst of anger can turn a pleasant family drive to church into one full of fear and intimidation.

Work environments build walls of distrust because of seething, and unresolved anger. Relationships never get beyond the surface because of the fear of anger’s rejection. No one wants to be around an angry person. The Bible even says, “Anger is cruel and fury overwhelming, but who can stand before jealousy” (Proverbs 27:4).

Where does anger come from? There are probably a variety of sources. One is the result of not being loved and/or of not loving. When a heart is perpetually unloved, it has a void that is first influenced by—and then filled with—anger. On the contrary, a heart full of love has no room for anger. Love melts anger the way the sun melts a milk chocolate bar at the beach. Cold anger is no match for the warm flames of love.

Love responds with understanding, instead of seeking to argue or defend itself. Love learns to forgive instead of storing up resentment in someone who has been deeply disappointed. Love moves on instead of seething in the stew of what should have happened. Love matures over mistakes made, while anger whines in immaturity.

Furthermore, anger incubates in a hurting heart. A heart raw with emotion is a candidate for anger. Suffering may be hurting your heart and you can’t take it anymore. Your heart is crushed and wrung out by pain. You are extremely vulnerable to the influence of anger, so let the compassion of Christ heal your heart. Invite the Lord to love on you, and process your pain in prayer. Listen intently to the Lord, for He really does care. He loves you right in the middle of your mess. Invite the love of Jesus to do surgery on your soul. After the Almighty has loved on you, let others love on you. Love is salve for your soul, as you need the love and prayers of people to help you process your anger.

Moreover, you may be the brunt of another’s angry outbursts, but do not take their anger personally. See that person as Jesus does, and extend forgiveness. Anger may be the defense mechanism another uses to keep you at bay. But kill him or her with kindness instead. Initiate forgiveness seven times seventy, and pray for this person to be loved by God and by you. Anger is an ugly mask, so unveil it with acceptance. Anger is your excuse to love and accept, not to fight and flee.
The Bible says, “A fool gives full vent to his anger, but a wise man keeps himself under control” (Proverbs 29:11).

Friday, October 7, 2011

Model The Way

10-7-2011 by Boyd Bailey

Model the Way


You became imitators of us and of the Lord, for you welcomed the message in the midst of severe suffering with the joy given by the Holy Spirit. 1 Thessalonians 1:6

Parents are in a unique position to model the way for living to their children. The role of father and mother carries a humbling responsibility to be a parent worth following. Whether someone likes it or not—they are the Lord’s authority over their little ones—and it’s imperative they take seriously their obligation to steward well their parental roles.

What a privilege to present Christ to our progeny in our speech, actions and attitude. Indeed, our words carry weight when our actions align with Almighty God’s expectations. The Lord looks for parents to depend on Him for wisdom and direction—so it plants the same seeds of dependence on God in the heart of a child at home. A parent regularly prays for Christ’s provision—thus the son or daughter desires to do the same.

“Listen, my sons, to a father’s instruction; pay attention and gain understanding” (Proverbs 4:1).

A child is most motivated to walk wisely when their loving parents live it out before them. A parent learns patience in prayer and passes on this pattern of longsuffering to their sons and daughters. A child or teenager who observes their father and mother serving the poor, caring for aging parents and giving generously to where God is working—wants to do the same. The best way for a young boy or girl to learn is to serve alongside their parents.

Jesus is not looking for perfect parents, but for fathers and mothers who will live by faith and not by sight. The Lord longs for parents whose public profession of faith matches their private conduct and character. Your child may or may not remember what you say, but there is a high probability they will become who you are.

Therefore, seek the Lord together first as husband and wife—and then as a family. God will give you the grace to model for your children a life of love and forgiveness. Pray with them and for them to walk in the truth—while trusting in the Lord. Do not underestimate the power of your influence on your little ones. You are God’s representative of righteousness to their tender hearts. Be a compelling example for Christ.

“Children’s children are a crown to the aged, and parents are the pride of their children” (Proverbs 17:6).

How can we be an example to our children that causes them to love Christ?

Related Readings: Isaiah 38:19; Jeremiah 32:18; Malachi 4:6; Luke 2:27

Thursday, October 6, 2011

Disciplined Exercise

10-6-2011 by Boyd Bailey

Disciplined Exercise


I discipline my body like an athlete, training it to do what it should. 1 Corinthians 9:27a (NLT).

For the most part, Jesus walked everywhere he went; He had built-in exercise in His daily routine. Indeed, the comforts of modern society are actually in conflict with creating an exercise regimen. Discretionary time is filled with less important activities to the detriment of keeping the body in a condition to be a blessing and not a burden.

For example, when someone stays up late to watch television, they typically sleep later the next day. If the morning is the best time to walk, run, lift weights or engage in aerobics, then the probability of exercise is much lower. A disciplined life understands the need to calendar activities that compliment one another. Disciplined exercise requires you to plan ahead.

“For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self-discipline” (2 Timothy 1:7).

Yes, some followers of Jesus are more disciplined than others, but His Spirit empowers all who ask for self-discipline with a spiritual source. A disciple of Jesus, by nature, leans into the Lord motivated by discipline and determination. A disciple without discipline is like a mother without compassion, unnatural. So, see exercise as a stewardship of God’s gift of health and train your body to obey and serve the will of God for your life.

“Do you not know that in a race all the runners run, but only one gets the prize? Run in such a way as to get the prize. Everyone who competes in the games goes into strict training. They do it to get a crown that will not last, but we do it to get a crown that will last forever” (1 Corinthians 9:24-25).

There are those who turn exercise into an idol, and miss the point of good health, as an offering to Jesus Christ. It is not for our own vanity that we get into shape; rather it is for the glory of God. You invest an hour a day in physical training so that you can most effectively balance the day at work, home and leisure. It is better to pay a trainer or gym a modest fee now, than to wake up in the hospital one day with a catastrophic bill.

How does your fitness determine your service for God? Do you take it for granted or do you see it as a gift from the Lord to be managed well? Your health, good or bad, is a platform to pronounce the faithfulness of God. You do not seek attention for yourself, but use the interest of others to interest them in eternal matters. Point people to Jesus as you prepare His earthly temple for a life of love and worship. Thus, exercise for eternal purposes.

“No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it” (Hebrews 12:11).

How can I create a routine in my life that incorporates disciplined exercise for God’s glory?

Related Readings: Daniel 1:5; Proverbs 5:23; 1 Timothy 4:8; Titus 1:8

Monday, October 3, 2011

Exchanged Life

10-3-2011 by Boyd Bailey

Exchanged Life


“You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; to be made new in the attitude of your minds; and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness.” Ephesians 4:22-24

There is a great exchange that takes place when a person places their faith in Jesus Christ. Their old way of living is replaced with living for the Lord. Their old way of thinking is replaced with thinking on the truth of Jesus. Their old way of speaking is replaced with speech that is sprinkled with the grace of God. The old has passed, the new has come.
The life of Christ becomes the life of the follower of Christ. No longer are we led down the dead end road of unrighteousness, but we are set free to journey down the less traveled road of righteousness. We give up what we could not keep, our life on earth, in exchange for what we can keep, eternal life in heaven. To a watching world it seems foolish to give up for God, but what we get from God, forgiveness, peace and love, is true life.

“Since, then, you have been raised with Christ, set your hearts on things above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things. For you died, and your life is now hidden with Christ in God. When Christ, who is your life, appears, then you also will appear with Him in glory” (Colossians 3:1-4).

Have you surrendered yourself to your Savior Jesus? Have you given over to Him trust in your own goodness and good deeds in exchange for His holiness and His Spirit-filled power? This great exchange of the temporal for the eternal is what gives you the capacity to grow in grace and to become a person of great faith. However, an effective exchange requires the receiver to have faith in the giver. God is a generous giver who can be trusted.

Maybe you have believed, but have lost your way and you need a refresher in righteousness. Perhaps repentance has become a foreign language for your heart and mind. Let loose of your old life of fear and doubt and replace it with your new life of trust and security. Put off pride and put on humility. Put off anger and put on forgiveness.

“In Christ you have been brought to fullness. He is the head over every power and authority. In Him you were also circumcised with a circumcision not performed by human hands. Your whole self ruled by the flesh was put off when you were circumcised by Christ, having been buried with Him in baptism, in which you were also raised with Him through your faith in the working of God, who raised Him from the dead” (Colossians 2:10-12).

Make this great eternal exchange and do not waste another day. No one has ever regretted receiving from Almighty God His agenda for their life. The Lord wants you in exchange for Him. Jesus wants your life in exchange for His life. He wants your troubled heart in exchange for His tender heart. He wants your fears in exchange for His peace and calm.

“If you declare with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved. For it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your mouth that you profess your faith and are saved” (Romans 10:9-10).

Have I exchanged my old lost and selfish life for Christ’s new life of love, forgiveness and service to others? If not, why not now?

Related Readings: John 17:3; Romans 5:12-21; Galatians 2:20; 1 John 5:13; 2 Timothy 1:9-10